You’ve never seen it while giving him a blowjob? Maybe you just aren’t looking, which is honestly a good life choice.

I believe it is a trend influenced by porn, like bald pussies, anal in general, facials, etc. Because it’s become more popular in porn, and more openly referenced in pop cultural, people believe it’s way more common than it is. I have one female friend who looooooves to eat ass, but I have other friends who don’t even…

It might be a matter of focus? I don’t really remember seeing butthole while eating pussy, but I know they must have been there. I think I just wasn’t looking for it, because I wasn’t into buttholes at the time.

Why would you immediately begin to question someone who says they are a victim? Genuinely curious.

Initial reports said that they had both been shown the footage the next day. Olympios has maintained that she has no memory of the actual incident. Reporting on this situation has been very inconsistent across media outlets.

Is that true? I was always under the impression that people on the Bachelor franchise actually had sex with each other somewhat often.

From the minute this production shut down was reported, there have been contradictory reports from different sources running on different media outlets. If there was conclusive video evidence from the beginning that nothing had happened, I have a hard time believing they would have shut down production which must have…

It’s not a privilege to have your identity constantly erased. This is how I feel about my own lived experience. You are free to disagree, but it does not change how I experience my own life.

Never Stockton.

Have you forgotten they were given cheese sandwiches? CHEESE SANDWICHES! No one deserves that.

I was once in a bar and a patron yelled “If I can’t kill a black person, why is it OK to kill a chicken?” Her friends were encouraged to see her home and the bar owner then made the rounds apologizing to every table for her behavior.

Thanks for the perspective from a longer term resident. I spent a lot of time in East Oakland about 5 years ago because my girlfriend lived there, and I enjoyed her neighborhood a lot. There was good, affordable food and it was a pretty place with beautiful old homes and churches. We were openly a (lesbian) couple…

Abortion is an interesting one for me, because if someone genuinely believes that life begins at conception I understand why they oppose abortion. However, while I know many people who are personally against abortion, most of them do not feel that it should be outlawed. I would never date someone who is against…

LOL, only in SF. How is that even legal, requiring people to buy overpriced food from vendors in a public space? In your personal opinion, how long will Oakland will remain Oakland before becoming gentrified to the point that it’s basically SF? I grew up in the general Bay Area and have wanted to live in Oakland since…

I live in the Bay Area and travel a lot within the US. There is a palpable, communal sense of stress in the Bay Area due to the high cost of living, that I only recognized by traveling to other cities and feeling it’s absence.

LIFE should be all literature and drugs! Take breaks only to eat, sleep, and fuck.

I think this is a great approach, and also common sense/decency. I am troubled by the increasing tendency of the progressive left to value dogmatic conformity to the most extreme positions on any and all social justice issues over being a good person who does their best not to harm others and to treat all people…

I am queer and live in the Bay Area, and honestly didn’t realize people had issues with the word queer when it wasn’t clearly being used as a slur until I read this comment thread. I have always thought that it was an umbrella term for people who are not heterosexual/cisgendered/non-binary. It’s surprising to me to…

You raise an interesting point about those who appropriate a marginalized identity that’s not authentic to their lived experiences. However, I have to question your position that someone who presents strongly as one gender can’t see themselves as having a non-binary gender identity, and that someone in “mostly hetero”…

I think we should inherently distrust anyone who acts as an arbiter of other people’s morality; I never like Cosby because he criticized Lisa Bonet for being naked. Don’t come for any of the Bonet women, we are lucky to gaze upon their beauty and they are most likely literal angels.