You hit the nail on the head; someone with good judgement and boundaries would realize how extreme these fantasies are and be more careful about sharing them.

Don’t let anyone try to convince you that you’re uptight for not wanting to be choked. Choking is incredibly dangerous and if it accidentally goes to far, whelp, someone’s dead. It’s the only consensual sexual activity between adults that I judge.

Yeah, the vibrator bit was hot but choking until she passes out and fucking her while she’s unconscious? Those are really dark and serious fantasies that someone with good judgement wouldn’t share so casually.

Oh, I like this and think the adds are genuinely sexy. That lead image is so hot, I’m jealous of them.

Like nair. So nasty; it smells the same as when you put drano down your shower because they are both essentially melting human hair. Gross.

Have you ever heard guys talk about how they love shaved pussy and hate stubble and razor burn, their last GF was always perfectly smooth so that’s a reasonable expectation for all women? You can have sex once a week with a perfectly smooth pussy, or way more often if you accept that hair grows on adult genitals.…

I don’t know if it’s that simple. I’m very generous in my relationships, but I am also opinionated and independent. Men always find it charming at first, but after a few years I’m a “bossy bitch.” My current partner calls me “bossy” and criticizes me for “interrupting” him all the time, and I’m like WTF you knew me…

I am an instinctively empathetic and generous person. Unfortunately, most people will take advantage of empathy and generosity if you let them. It’s so hard to find a balance between being the kind person I want to be, and not letting other people treat me poorly. I really, really struggle with it.

That’s a good point, and it’s sadly common for women to be arrested after they or someone else reports abuse. From the other things I’ve read about her, she has drug/anger issues that make me believe she could have attacked her BF, but you are 100% correct that we don’t actually know what happened and it’s possible he…

Messed up. One anonymous allegation and these athletes get their season derailed? Meanwhile, schools go to great length to protect male players against rape allegations. I think a lot of people feel it’s worse for women to consensually have sex for money than for men to have sex with someone without their consent.

I’m stupid and misread your original comment that you didn’t moisturize at least 2x a week. I apologize if I came across as critical of your personal skin needs/grooming habits. I’m not worried about what anyone else is doing with their skin.

My point is more that individuals can probably look at their skin and tell if they need to scrub vigorously, moisturize, or just rinse with water and pat dry. It doesn’t make anyone wrong or gross for doing it differently. Please take care of your skin however you see fit, I didn’t mean to imply any judgement for…

I think you are totally justified in hating her, she’s done some shitty things reportedly.

That’s true, and I hope for her own sake she cleans up and gets herself a good therapist. It doesn’t excuse her abusing a romantic partner. There are plenty of addicts raised with abuse who never cross that line themselves.

Yeah, she was. My comment’s a little unclear, the coke/rage issues come from blind items but her DV arrest is documented.

You don’t need to moisturize unless your skin feels dry. I mostly do it after I shave, since that’s drying. You must have nice skin if you don’t need to moisturize, which is a good sign for your overall health.

I’ve always felt that clean freaks are more judgemental people, in general. You think human bodies are naturally disgusting, avoid all contact with strangers and things strangers touch, disinfect your own body as if it were a cutting board used to prepare raw chicken, and think that’s not reflective of your attitude…

No, I moisturize 2x a week and rarely wash my body with soap aside from pits/tits/bits. I smell clean and do not have dirt/skin building up on my body. I don’t if it’s just individual skin chemistry, or if your skin adjusted to how you wash it. You don’t actually want to disinfect your skin daily, because it’s bad for…

I’ve gone weeks showering without soap because I ran out and it was a low priority. I’d use some gentle face cleanser on my tits/bits/pits and let water do the rest. How do you leg-washers think people survived for the millennia before daily bathing and soap were things? Most soap is bad for your skin and should be…

An Emma is just a classier Becky.