I will totally be the it girl if she doesn’t want to be. I have grand plans. Minions, please apply.

She was so great in Short Term 12, I thought she should be considered a hot commodity based on that one film alone.

I would believe it. This is a recurring argument in my marriage, though we’ve done a lot of work in the past year or so making it more equitable. We don’t have kids yet, and hopefully the groundwork we lay now will serve us when we take over the very gendered roles of mother and father.

The top three issues in marriage are fidelity, sexual issues and unequal distribution of household work. So you are not wrong about that.

Despite what MRAs and regular men claim, marriage benefits men, not women. All of the stats confirm this. Married men report greater levels of happiness than singles, and it’s the reverse for women. Married men live longer than unmarried men, the reverse for women. When a man and woman cohabitate, generally she takes…

Or perhaps because men tend not to have friends/community ties the way women do and have a greater need to be in a relationship.

Yeah, I’m surprised and somewhat horrified how the consensus amongst most Jezebel commenters seems to be: “Family always comes first.” If a member of my family was accused of raping a child the same age as my niece I would most definitely let them stay in jail until they have been cleared so that no other child can…

Child rape is not a “fuckup” though. Public intoxication, peeing on a statue, stealing beer, those are fuckups.

Yeah, I get that he’s family and it’s tough to think the very worst about your brother, but COME ON. This isn’t petty crime; this is child rape.

Quite seriously if I had a family member who had *allegedly* raped a 12 year old? They can sit in jail and rot. But then I don’t like most of my family .

This summer, I had a sex dream about Rob Ford (yes, that’s the crack smoking ex-mayor of Toronto). In the dream we were married, and had people coming over for dinner in 20 minutes - so I convinced him we should sneak in a quickie before our guests arrived (yes, I convinced HIM). We then proceeded to have intense sex,…