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Pretty simple. I was there. A SAHM for 25 years. I was a "baby wearer" but as soon as they were mobile when upright it turned into them being picked up when they asked or it seemed like they needed a cuddle.

Boy howdy did I get to see this in action!

Part of the problem is that white girls are just troubled girls acting out, but black girls are treated as grown women way too much, even when we're like 12.

Shouldn't a boy who got a girl pregnant also be exhibiting poor "discipline" by this same reasoning and also be prohibited from class?

I practiced a form of parenting I coined a term for as a sort of joke, "Proximity Parenting With Benign Neglect." I should have written a book or something. 5 kids off and running as capable and semi-detached adults (meaning they call and come by for holidays and we go out together on occasion etc but basically are

"Kylie Jenner should be in sixth period biology right now instead of flexing like a grown woman on Instagram"

YUUUUP.

So the foot soldiers of the 'war on drugs' are almost as corrupt as the lawmakers who started the initiative.

Yup, I think you're right. She doesn't have an accent and in general isn't close to how Hispanics are typically portrayed in the media (with an accent and holding a broom).

Powerful words to remain vulnerable to and introspective about. I continue to get empty stares from others when I mention that I am reading, watching and seeking the insight of "black feminism" which her comments so accurately highlight. As a white man I have inherent privilege that I will never fully be able to

"Can I get a caffe' latte, please?"

"When Rosa Parks said she didn't give up her bus seat because she was tired, she meant that she was tired of being treated like a second-class citizen, not that she was physically exhausted. This is clear in the full context of her statement. The idea that she was just a quiet lady

1 ABD, one PhD student, One full time job, one part time job and one stipend, no kids, two cats, and a 2 bedroom apartment.

Two physician MDs, 8 month old and a dog, in 700 sq ft one bedroom.

I'm 31, with a master's degree, my husband is finishing up his PhD, we have a child, and we live in a 2 bedroom apartment. The American dream is dead.

YES, THIS. I always feel weird about being white-passing in America because it's like, "I so know this bitch would treat me like shit if she knew I was mixed, cause I just saw how she sneered at the Asian dude in front of me in line." At the same time, my existence feels like I'm punking a lot of white supremacists

i find her utterly disgusting and nasty-looking. here's an eye cleanser :

I'd buy this "stop tearing us apart/we need to all support each other" if they didn't come out in droves every time Beyoncé or Niki Minaj shake their ass to talk about how they are setting back feminism.

Just curious, what decade did you grow up in?