I don’t care for Taylor Swift’s music but if you’re going to claim she used feminism to make herself famous and rich you should probably throw in that she also used her song writing skills to create music that appeals to millions, marketing skills that keep her in the headlines, and from what I read, artistic and…

It’s sexual entitlement and also the belief that women do not completely own their sexuality and must be shown the experience before they can have an epiphany and discover that that was exactly what they wanted.

I can’t begin to imagine having sex with someone who is frozen or completely disconnected from the experience.

100%. I have corsets more comfortable than my bras (and they’re professionally fitted too!), and I’d wear them more often if they didn’t make my bustline look kinda funky under my regular shirts. ;D Clearly I need to get another one made that has old school gusseted boob cups rather than a straight-across…

Can’t help myself, as a corset maker... if the corset is properly fitted and laced, they’re wonderful. Supportive of the back, distributes the weight of the breast more onto the torso than the shoulders, promotes good posture. It’s badly made corsets/overly tight lacing that causes issues and discomfort..

The best protest would have been showing up in worn-out sweats and ponytails, without makeup or self-tanner or any of the bullshit that famous women are required to participate in if they want to be accepted. Refuse to be a sex object for them. Refuse to play by the rules of always having to be attractive.

God I was just crying over the kids in Yemen and now my heart breaks for anyone dealing with this...

Or she’s older than she says hehe

I’m not kidding you, he probably learned that from a pick-up artist style blog and thought it was fine. It’s horrifying.

Or go full Handmaid’s Tale with long red robs and white bonnets.

Black couture gowns are hardly a protest - half of them already wear black. No, if they really want to make a discomforting impact, how about they go for genuine Mediterranean widows’ weeds: black lace veils, mantillas, sensible shoes, the whole shmear.

“I’m self conscious if my partner isn’t actively moaning and enjoying himself during sex” Right? If my partner doesn’t seem actively into what’s going on, it’s an instant turn off. Maybe it’s my own sketchy sexual history, but there’s no way I can enjoy or continue sex with someone who doesn’t appear to be fully…

Right? I love everything about pregnancy and motherhood so far, but we’re stopping because of everything you mentioned. These dickheads act like I just want to keep my hard partying lifestyle and just don’t want the personal limitations of children like it’s a selfish thing(not a problem, you do you). Newsflash: It’s…

So like ... can I have maternity leave? Affordable prenatal care? Any treatment for my battered lady-bits after birth? Help with childcare? (My parents live very, very far away and I really like what I do for a living.) Will my daughters be able to get jobs where they won’t be harassed by their employers, or is their…

Many modern women have been scammed into imagining that men no longer act this way, and that if they themselves remain silent, or do not repeat their refusals, or freeze up, they will be perceived as being not-consenting. But this is a scam.

Oh God, how awful.

How many of us have had this happen, the no is accepted but they keep trying. Ten mins later, twenty...basically if you stay and continue to chat or laugh or lay next to them or even kiss, they’ll try again.

Yeah, typically when you tell someone you don’t want to have sex with them you have a reasonable expectation that sex is off the table until further notice, not that they’ll wait a few minutes and fuck you anyway.

A dude in my friend group at uni told almost the exact same story. The girl didn’t want to have sex, they had sex, she cried, the dude was all wtf? What the hell is wrong with men?

The amount of times I’ve encountered guys on tinder who complain about women who say they don’t want to hook up then hook up on the first date is astounding. Like I’m sure some are being coy but how many are being coerced?