that two fraternities part — that had me laughing out loud — kudos to you!

Watch it now, it’s really a good movie — both leads are insufferable people and the cause each other such grief. It’s really good.

I have not — I will wait until it is released and then I will own it :)

I saw an early release of it (which holy shit — I have never been in a test audience and that is sooooo cool!) and I was so moved! I also like how del Toro picks a color to be the cinematic theme of the story. The green hues were so beautiful. Cinematically, this film is a love letter for your eyes

drop waist and full skirt... interesting?

I just love her in everything she does — even the mediocre things

I agree — it was good to see Goldie though and of course Joan Cusack.
Almost Christmas felt very predictable, but Mo’Nique was the most enjoyable part of that story.  

She thought she was going on a good will mission — she is fully honest with the fact that she was naive to the ways of war and just saw children being killed and felt she had to do something

I listened to the You Must Remember This series that talked about Jane Fonda and touched on her role during Vietnam — she was a patsy for the North - they mislead her about a lot of the images and what those planes and guns were used for — Also, the two topics don’t correlate. The fact that Megyn can’t seem to…

there’s several reasons why people stay. the same reasons people make bad choices all the time. You factored in his celebrity as a reason she stayed, and that might be accurate. This is where Babe failed, they never asked what made her stay.

That’s the point — there needs to be some sort of degree of harassment that can happen between two people in a private context — its like sexually bullying. if someone constantly pressures you to make a choice contrary to what you already said you were comfortable with until you acquiesce to their wishes — that’s a…

Just a few opinion pieces and debates on line. A lot of the stances I have read say it’s even more intimate than intercourse... Which kinda makes since, you gotta get right up in there with your face after all.

Maybe when you interview therapists (which you should totally do) you can forward this article to them and ask them for a thermometer gauge on how they react to it. If your husband is the loving man you know him to be, he will want you equally invested.

I agree about hampering rejection for fear of retaliation. I really think you’ve tapped in on a very valid reason for the evening going on as long as it did.

Someone suggested that we call it harassment, which works for me accept personal space was violated. So it feels like there should be degrees

Right, I can’t say all because that wouldn’t be true. A surprisingly large sample of people say oral sex is sex.

I think we can all agree that “nagging” is a soft ball when a person pressures another person into a sexual act.

According to many people oral sex is sex.

I suppose it depends on if you’re the one being badgered.

Yeah, I was raised on no means no, but no one bothered to tell me what it meant if you weren’t given the opportunity to even refuse. What was that? Only yes means yes changed everything.