Now, I should acknowledge that no two bipolar cases are identical, but having it myself, it’s never once compelled me to say or do the off the wall shit Kanye comes up with. He’s right about the bouts of paranoia, but all he’s doing with this other shit is adding new stigmas that we REALLY don’t need in the mental…

Yeah, I’m all about flawed characters who regularly make The Wrong Choice, but Tarisai really hit it on the head with this:

They did a really really good job of setting up a takedown of White Feminism and then instead had Kat fall for White Feminism. Leave it to white writers to think this one up.....

This. All of this. 

I’m not refuting Winona’s statements about her own experiences, I believe her when she says he was never violent towards her. But he was also known for completely trashing hotel rooms, and that is violent behavior. I’ve had a boyfriend who never hit me but he was regularly violent in our environment during arguments.…

....and in such an inappropriate manner as well! How dare you.

“Garners attention” they’re wearing masks??? And if someone else took their photo and wrote a story it’s still their fault for being in public where they can be caught existing?

It’s a severe case of those gross gays being gay in public and I don’t like it. 

Totally agree. I thought this article was an absolute disgrace.

It’s gonna be real weird for all my friends who have ever put their arms around me to learn that we are now in a relationship that we have publicly debuted.

Do not hide your homophobia behind a concern for the BLM movement. This article is gross. Gay couples holding hands is not an announcement. It’s what couples do, and since I don’t see you taking offense to straight couples holding hands you and your homophobia can fuck off. 

A gay couple “reveal” their relationship by existing in public together? And photographed by someone else? This is some homophobic bullshit.

I can’t stress Brandy’s “this person is not your weighted blanket” enough.

I get the sense that Sick for Love isn’t allowing herself to mourn because of guilt. The more she denies herself the right to feel those feelings, the longer the mourning will last. Let it out girl! 

A useful way of looking at dilemmas like this is realizing that the other person also deserves the same unconditional love and happiness you feel you’re lacking, and if you’re not the person to give it to them, it’s better in the long run for both of you to move on. “Living a lie” is absolutely a thing, and not a good…

“There’s a cost to everything”

I wish The Help had been told from Aibileen’s POV. That’s a book I’d like to read and a movie I’d like to see.

My mother was the eldest of 16, including 4 sets of twins. That’s 16 kids in 17 years, y’all, born between 1928 and 1945. When I see these TV families with their minivans and multiple washers and dryers, I picture my beloved Grandma making 12 loaves of bread at a time and doing infinite loads of laundry with a manual…

I wish The Help had been told from Aibileen’s POV. That’s a book I’d like to read and a movie I’d like to see. Despite the terrible movie around her, Voila’s performance as Aibileen gutted me. I sat through the movie just wanting more of her. I still remember her eyes.

The Help is just as stupid as Forrest Gump on race relations.