Is it weird that my first thought was wardrobe malfunction with a trouser snake cameo?

But that isn’t the case here. The Arquettes have always been supremely supportive of Alexis and they have stood up for trans-related issues as a family. To think they’d all of a sudden change their minds just because Alexis died is ascribing the faults of less supportive families to one that is not worthy of such an…

Or Bobby isn’t. The family released a statement that said ‘brother to sister to brother.’ They were comfortable with her transition, and I assume they know a lot more about her wishes than you or I do.

We already did this one yesterday

If you read the statement released by Alexis’s brother you might understand. Bobby is being as sensitive as possible, he is not mis-gendering here. The statement says that Alexis was his brother at birth, then sister, then brother, again. The statement seemed very true to Alexis’s wishes at the time of passing, so…

This may seem trite, but I became addicted to the Surreal Life one spring break in high school. Alexis was one of my first introductions to not only the concept of transgender, but gender fluidity. Alexis was obviously very loved by family. Don't make this death about pronouns. It's about a person.

You’ve already been enlightened so I won’t pile too much other than to say don’t assume everyone wants/expects the same things you do.

To avoid more reactions like yours?

Hey, friends! Join me in the Not Wrestling Over the Gendered Language section. Alexis was fantastic and great and was loved by many. Instead of being self-appointed pronoun monitors, let’s love on Alexis’ memory and realize some people will have it right and some people will have it wrong. AIDS sucks, brain tumors…

No! It’s not a joke! But even though Robert Arquette claims Alexis was using male pronouns at the end of their life, I have since changed “brother” to “sibling.”

S/he identified as “gender suspicious” apparently. So no?

Google is your friend on this one. This was all covered in the previous post about Alexis’ death ad nauseam.

You could have clicked the first link in your own quotation there, and found this:

A fucking white button down that doesn’t immediately pop open at my boobs.

You and me both, sis. I grew up in the 80s and I wore, WITHOUT IRONY, a black and white striped top+leggings combo with a ruffled skirt of neon green and orange. Why? Because of STYLE. #neverstyle #i’mwithoutstyle #lockstyleup

Omg me too! I thought I was gonna have to make my “I will punch every millenial I see if Trump wins” speech.

Ahem, that’s nice, but *I* will be voting for substance.

Jesus, you scared me for a minute there.

Let’s be honest... if you were Victoria Beckham would you want your lover gettin’ with your friends?

I’m starting to think ‘sources’ are just Tumblr fans.