happyinhonolulu
HappyinHonolulu
happyinhonolulu

My mom casually mentioned “hey, an invitation came for your 20th high school reunion” during a phone call and I instinctively said “oh, that’s not for me”. Then there was this horribly awkward pause while she waited for me to do the math and die inside.

As a woman who’s been plus-sized for the last 20 years or so, that catcalling moment seemed pretty spot on to me. I lived in Brooklyn for 13 years, and lost track of my catcalling/fatshaming moments on the street. Most vivid: I had a car of teens make mooing sounds at me as I jogged past them. I was actually feeling

Not exactly on topic, but I feel like 2013 (and 2008, for what it’s worth) WAS yesterday, and I’m just now realizing that was 5 and 10 years ago and is this what middle age is like?

Let’s be clear, these people have ceased to be Star Wars fans and have morphed into overgrown manbabies that feel threatened by a woman with any sort of power or leadership role. All the MRA nonsense aside, I still don’t understand all the hate for The Last Jedi when The Phantom Menace and Attack of the Clones clearly

I’m sorry I don’t feel like you get to make the call on whether this visit was worth it or not. I think that determination’s up to Alice Marie Johnson. Like it’s not like Kim is working on a bill with the shithead. She’s trying to get a 63 year old Black woman her freedom. Shit I’d rather Kim’s ass beg him for her

She already hired a team of attorneys to take up her case and look at appeal options... Besides busting her out of jail this is the only alternative our (broken!) legal system provides. Yeah obviously Trump doesn’t do anything for anyone unless he thinks it benefits him, but he also has transparently and pathetically

As a male victim of sexual assault, who had former friends beat me down and then violate me with a broom handle I am grateful that this is being openly discussed. I would not personally be able to watch this show and especially not that scene. However, it is somewhat heartening for me to see something that happened to

How about this Idea. A newly single John Goodman is nursing a beer in a bar and in walks in a newly single Phylicia Rashad... stay with me.... they meet cute and by the end of the pilot they agree to merge their families Brady Bunch style.

But is Drake light-skinned enough that he was immune to racist typecasting? In other words, if a casting director has either an avowed, or unknowing bias that puts black and white actors into specific boxes as to what parts each is “good for”, would Drake’s complexion really give him entry into the “white category”?

The Smallville actress asked him to “make her a great actress again,”

Whoa......I never would have imagined THAT guy is a total fuckin’ dickhole.

It’s really not that difficult. Most people take a bag of some sort to work, and I throw in camping silverware and a glass straw into my bag or purse. It’s not nearly as much of an inconvenience as you’d think, I forget my work ID more often.

no joke. when i saw sara gilberts tweet i literally said “oh fuck off” out loud at work. i feel bad for some of the lower staff sure. but the main cast and producers knew exactly who roseanne is. and they’re in the position to say “no” when the show was in talks of being renewed without being affected.

It was definitely a strange decision. While I can see ABC calculating that the recent emboldening of racists across the country might create a lucrative new market of bigots, someone must have realized that Rosanne can’t keep her stupid opinions to herself. Any sane person would have looked at the “hilarious” photo of

Every last cast member knew what they signing up for when they hitched their wagons to a vile, racist, pig. Now they’re forever tainted with the stench of Rosanne. They all got what they deserved.

Thank you. That statement made my eye twitch. Neville is no coward and being brave is the number one Gryffindor quality. Dude was ready to throw down to stop three of his own friends from sneaking out of their common room. He led the students in revolt when Harry didn’t return to school. He’s the one who got

I have noticed the same thing about myself. I prefer to eat healthier when I can but I don’t restrict myself anymore like I used to. I would go through obsessive phases of eating and exercising then when I ate something “unhealthy” I would feel so guilty-which isn’t healthy! I realized what made me feel better is

I remember reading an article back in the 1980s, when Jane Fonda’s workout videos were all the rage (I had two of them!), in which a nutritionist pointed out that Jane Fonda looked like that because her genes made her look like that. It was very depressing to a plump 15-year-old, who desperately wanted to look like

So much disordered eating going on. So painful and chilling to keep reading about these “cleanses” and “raw food” diets etc...my sister died about 13 years ago from regular old anorexia but today she would have sipped spinach juice on and off all day with similar results and been lauded for it.

MW > mayo