Dani could’ve said she don’t want hire anyone with hammer toes in her house and that’s her prerogative. Those two ugly ass bros can go fuck themselves, starting shit for ratings. Correct me if I’m wrong but “pretty” ain’t a protected class of people and statistically, they have a better chance of getting hired than…
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Exactly. Stay, go... it doesn’t matter whether she got out of there or not. The fact is that he was a tremendous creep for pressuring her for full-on intercourse when many times, verbally, she had said to slow down or that she didn’t want to have sex, at least not have it on that particular date. He pulled that “does…
^ This
The mere act of asking someone to fuck when you’re fooling around is something akin to rape? Are you being serious?
It was obvious she was uncomfortable. He kept trying to fuck her after each time she made clear she did not want to have sex with him that night. If you want to give him major points for not actually raping her, feel free. But it’s shitty behavior to keep pressuring someone into sex after multiples making it clear…
Non-verbal communication is used for more than just dating. Should women speak up more, yes? Should women feel safe to speak up more? yes. But should men stop overlooking non-verbal communication? No. I don’t believe for a second that men can’t understand non-verbal communication. They seem to understand it well…
They don’t have to guess. They can ask. Why is it women’s responsibility to tell men but not men’s responsibility to ask? Isn’t it any person’s responsibility to keep from sexually assaulting other people?
Asking to relax and chill is obvious. Saying maybe you’ll have sex next time is obvious. Saying you don’t want to feel forced is obvious.
Literally pushing someone away from you does not require someone to “read what you may be thinking.” That is a clear, non-verbal clue that any reasonable person should be able to interpret as a “no.”
This is amazing. She said “let’s slow down” and his response is to keep going. “Let’s slow down” is pretty fucking clear that you want to SLOW THINGS DOWN. I guess it’s not exactly precise, but it’s obvious she’s not comfortable moving too fast. If it’s not clear to him where the line is, he should ask for…
Stopping for a moment then forging merrily ahead at full speed when someone directly tells you to slow down is not respecting that person’s verbal cues. She had to tell him-verbally, out loud, with words-multiple times that she did not want to proceed further physically because he repeatedly returned to behavior she…
No, he didn’t. His first move when she asked to relax and chill was to keep going. When she says they can have sex “next time” his move is to gin up a “second date” by pouring her a glass of wine. When she said she didn’t want to feel “forced,” his response was to take out his dick and request she give him oral sex.…
Huh? She gave both obvious verbal and non-verbal cues. And what needs to change is men need to start ASKING for consent, not using a lack of an explicit hard “NO STOP NO STOP!!!” as a way to try to push further.
Do you know who does stuff like this? Who ignores communication from their partner, going ahead with whatever they want to do sexually, while always making sure to stay on the legal side of things? PREDATORS. It is not the men who care deeply about making sure their partners want to be there and are comfortable but…
On verbal and non-verbal communication:
It’s a symptom of a larger problem. A helluva a lot of jobs are going to be made redundant and our political system is adverse to hard truth and long-term planning (education, health, infrastructure) that isn’t about filling the wallets of the 1%, so instead we get these politician-parasites who feed off anger and…
Those things need to happen...
I would actually show up for that, it sounds really interesting as opposed to the whitewashed version I got in school.