Why do pop stars wear garters attached to nothing? They have expensive stylists who should tuck/cut that shit off or they could just grab some stockings and actually use the things. It looks ridiculous every time. I saw a photo of Beyoncé with dangling and even she looked absurd. If Beyoncé can’t pull it off no one…

Did you watch it when it came out or years later? Because certain aspects have aged really poorly. The Asian slang but no Asian characters thing would not fly in 2019. Also the way Mal treats Inara is absolutely appalling but we’re supposed to see it as a typical love-hate relationship turned romance. I absolutely…

He also demanded that his wife’s character in A Simple Favor exclusively drink martinis made with his liquor. If anyone had seen the film, I’m sure this would’ve been bigger news.

There’s lots of stuff in porn that is much more explicitly degrading. I’m not at all an anti-porn or anti-kink person but if I had to choose a specific to complain about I’d go with the racism.

If you ask a TERF what the biggest issues facing women are they’ll tell you trans people, sex work, and surrogate pregnancy.

Of all the various conventions of porn I’ve never understood why it’s facials that seem to draw the most ire. There are reasonable criticisms to be made but facials hurt no one.

I lived off this one-pan tomato basil spaghetti for years in my youth before I really learned to cook. Super easy and simple and there are loads of one-pan pasta recipes out there he can move on to if he gets bored as well as room for experimentation if he wants to freestyle it. There’s an adaptation with farro I got…

Nah. Full decrim.

Neil Gaiman is heavily influenced by Diana Wynne Jones. Her books are aimed at younger readers but they have that sorta Pixar thing where adults enjoy them. She wrote a bunch of children’s books in the eighties that don’t feel too young or AT ALL dated, which is impressive.

I dump as much out into the trash as possible then rinse the rest out into a strainer. Might mean a little bit of grounds gets into the sink but I can live with that. The strainer barely ever gets used for anything else so I only have to give it a good hard clean occasionally. 

Boyfriend had a friend hand-deliver Five Guys to my house, having learned my order by asking me while I slept. Massage, pedicure, dinner at a nice place with him and two of my closest friends. Blindfolded me and put me on a handtruck, took me to my favorite hotel, ate my pussy, threw me in the giant bathtub and…

I despise superheroes and typically refuse to watch anything superhero-adjacent but The Boys is all about how dumb and awful they are so I loved it.

No, they do not get paid more on camera, at least not for straight scenes. I’m not sure how the going rate for women in straight porn compares to men performing in gay and trans content, but men shooting b/g do not make more than their female co-stars. 

I once met home with a terrarium guy and had the opposite reaction — I was completely fucking thrilled. He had a tiny African house boa named Victor and I got to hold him and everything. He was adorable. The sex was decent and I’d been dumped the day before so it was really exactly what I needed. Don’t recall the…

I was single and very emotionally unavailable for two years and had a fantastic time on Happn. It’s people you cross paths with and at the time I lived in a neighborhood full of cute hipster boys. It was perfect. We were almost always neighbors so I’d send them to the bar a block from my house, which was convenient if…

True to Whedon form: it sounds terrible but will probably be highly entertaining yet problematic fluff that will make us all cry at some point. I’ll watch every episode as soon as it drops. Goddamnit. 

There have been an enormous number of spins on The Most Dangerous Game’s concept over the years and most of them are entertaining as hell. I’m fine with another. 

They poop hard little pellets that don’t smear or smell. Little bit of poop she missed or just hadn’t gotten around to sweeping up yet, fine, give her a break. If she just NEVER swept and let it pile up that’s pretty gross.

As far as I can tell from the internet those are laughing gulls. I was under the impression they were some kind of tern.

I’m a Millennial with older parents. We’re American but lived in Bangkok til I was 9 or so and they let me do a fair amount of wandering around by myself. (Also would send me out to get beer, which must have been convenient.) It was a bit of a shock when I moved back to the states and found that the kids in my nice…