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I mean, she literally said she avoided going out in public for months because she thought it was disrespectful to the victims. She doesn’t sound like someone who is particularly shocked or angry about people resenting her due to her husband’s actions.

I doubt she thought it was a coincidence that marrying a huge Hollywood producer resulted in actresses wearing her clothes, but is there any evidence that she knew he was intimidating them into doing it? She might have thought it was a “you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours” deal — which is super common in pretty

Honestly, I haven’t seen anyone anywhere giving “Bonnie” any shit whatsoever. People have expressed curiosity about her relationship with him and reasons for the breakup and she’s pretty much had to go into hiding from the press, which sucks, but I’m really not getting the blame angle.

It’s wild the ways that certain feminists will twist themselves into knots in order to justify their slut-shaming.

I’m a pro-domme with a lot of humiliation clients, particularly guys into small penis humiliation. It’s really common for insecurities to morph into fetishes, but I get that it can be hella weird and uncomfortable for the person with the fetish. I try to tell my guys that it’s a positive if they can draw pleasure from

It’s a classic Schrodinger’s douchebag ploy — it’s 100% designed to make her feel uncomfortable, but if he gets called out on being a dick he can claim it’s “just a joke!”to get off the hook.

lol it’s really funny how people like you are so invested in making this into trafficking victims vs sex workers that you literally ignore anyone who points out that this is bad for trafficking victims too

For some reason people seem to believe that the needs of sex workers are diametrically opposed to the needs of trafficking victims.

There’s porn that advertises that way, for sure. There’s no official “fair trade” label you can rely on, though. And feminist porn is often more about aesthetics than anything else — and also pays pennies, which IMO is exploitive. There are companies with a totally mainstream or even misogynistic aesthetic that both

Most porn isn’t made by major studios anymore, though. That’s a good thing — when performers produce their own content by doing trade shoots with other performers and selling their own content, they have a lot more control. Any kind of large-scale regulation of this type would put performers at the mercy of large

My moderately controversial opinion is that I don’t like it when adaptations stick too close to the source material. I want to see them do something new with the story, not a paint-by-numbers retread.

I’ve actually really enjoyed how they’ve explored the world beyond the book. I do recall being super curious about it when I read the book and it’s been cool to see it realized. It’s a major shift, but that’s not always a bad thing in an adaptation.

Yeah, she did say that, at the end of a long and very racist paragraph full of complaints about how white lady bodies are no longer the standard.

You seem to believe that the needs of sex workers and sex trafficking victims are diametrically opposed to each other and the only way to address the issue is to prioritize one group at the other’s expense. The truth is that when people in the sex trade suffer, the most marginalized members suffer the most — and that

If you’re so worried about trafficking then you should probably be REAL FUCKING WORRIED about a situation in which sex workers, no longer able to obtain or screen their own clients, are significantly likelier to work with exploitive third parties who take a big cut of their money.

SESTA/FOSTA just passed and you’re freaking out because someone on a website wrote a mean thing about a gross SNL sketch. Suck it up,. snowflake. People not liking your ideas or wanting to hear your blathering is not the same as censorship.

Censorship would be preventing the show from getting aired in the first place, you idiot.

People assume that sex workers either develop mental health issues because of the job or go into the job due to low self-esteem when the truth is that (1) lots of people suffer from mental health issues and some of those people happen to be sex workers, as you said, and (2) those mental health issues can make it

I think the American version flopped. Damn shame, it was legit a really great movie and I’ve rewatched it a few times since.

The thing about Medieval kids marrying young is actually a myth — it might have been common among royals who needed to secure alliances and couldn’t wait for the kids to grow up, but regular people married in their twenties.