Just fucking WOW

I’m surprisingly invested in learning how things panned out with Ruby.

Sure, I bet you aren’t a bigot at all! I bet that’s why you felt a need to bring this shit up, unprompted, basically to tell trans folks to know their place.

to think trans women have an “outsized” voice within feminism is so gorram laughable I don’t even know how to respond, so here is a gif

I like it too! I was a nanny for a long time and I feel like this movie captures the experience of 1) the nanny isn’t the mom/will never understand how hard it is to be the mom 2) but also the nanny is one part babysitter, one part therapist, one part friend who often fills the hole created by a less-than-present…

I dunno, I think that might overstate the dangers and risks involved with the surgery, when we really don’t need to further stigmatize trans folks or the transition process. What if she just died of something super common like a heart attack or a school shooting?

If it’s the victim’s fault it can’t happen to YOU, right? Because you’d do something different. You’d be smarter. Bless you... I really hope you’re never in this situation.

leave and pay for an unfinished service while you were harassed? uh ok sounds great

Excellent article. I’m looking at getting a tattoo sometime in the next year (once I save up my pennies) and I am willing to fly half-way across the country to get it done by a female artist I have heard a lot of good things about (she also specializes in the specific style I want). Considering that I am going to have…

“So what are you changing your name to when Dad gets arrested?”

It’s difficult to effectively communicate that I believe Grace, I think the #metoo and #timesup movements are not working as well as the should be, and that I don’t think Ansari is a predator in the sense of the men who’ve been called out before him.

This was a bad date. She had a horrible date with a clueless guy who thought he was being sexy and hot. She was made to feel uncomfortable, and it wasn’t right.

Not necessarily. By doing this, they are becoming permanent family. I don’t know what their family situations are like, but having someone you trust who can make important decisions for you if everything goes to crap can be huge.  

Viewers are advised that what they are viewing is a spectacle and is not real and that the train will not, in fact, come out of the movie screen and run over them.

cool the troll is here.

The people, by a margin of 3 million, voted for Clinton.

The decision is the “will of the American people.”

Anyone ever wish they had a sweet tiny lap cat to snuggle into your lap and keep you warm? This little kitty jumps up on my lap every night after dinner. She’s spayed and ready for a nice warm home in/around NYC!

You’re an alcoholic.

A friend who was having anxiety issues more so than alcohol issues was drinking a lot to deal. Her therapist and she decided to use the two drink rule, so she could participate in the hang out, but have a limit. One drink will always lead to two, but two drinks simply doesn’t have to lead to three.