I have been through similar stuff. I found this website to be very illuminating. melanietoniaevans.com/ I spent $120 for her program. Already, it's paid off more so than any shrink has. I have had to go through many healing modalities to recover from my last relationship. The book "Facing Love Addiction" by Pia…

I love this reply. Thank you.

Once my life and career are flourishing And settled (I would imagine this to be about when I'm 65), I would like to marry a man 40 years younger than I who can have my child.

Will you please adopt me??

"men's fantasies mentioned a partner's sexual desire and pleasure" Of course, everyone wants to be desired. Mainly, I think men like to fantasize that putting their dick in a woman will result in a peak experience of orgasm for her. Unfortunately, many women go along with this and fake a climax so that their man…

If I buy the dress, does the body come with it? They are beautiful - love the accent on the curvy hips. I wonder why they are all so sad or miserable looking. I'd be rejoicing.

yes indeed!

They should elect a fetus for the next pope.

Very creepy looking.

Sex is great, but celibacy is not evil, and not necessarily repression. It can be a life choice, especially among mystics. I'm not sticking up for the Catholic church - don't even get me started about them, but are boy scout leaders celibate? hardly. Everyone wants to jump on this bandwagon and blame the church,…

I eat my young.

I'm a tidal wave gal. They come up out of ponds and lakes. I'll look up and they'll be poised right above my head. I'm never afraid of them even when they come down on me - I'm a floater, so I'm not afraid of water. My mother was also horrific - almost killed me several times but never quite succeeded. I figure…

Usually when I have pregnancy dreams it's because my bladder is full.

Wow. That's funny. very funny.

5.) You won't die alone. Unless a couple dies in the same event, 50% of all married people will die alone. Generally the women outlive the men, so for the men who outlive the women, there are plenty of widows out there willing to nurse a new partner.

I was joking - fantasizing back to the rumors that somewhere, a long time ago, we lived in a matriarchy, not a patriarchy. Unfortunately, the abortion issue is not just about "murder". It is about taking power and sexuality away from women. Get over it folks, abortion is murder, but it's still my choice because…

You need to detach, but it's two steps forward and one step back. It takes a long time to understand that they don't see you and therefore they cannot love you. Most people hang onto hope for the rest of their lives. Good luck. Be good to the friends you have; reach out to them to see how they are. Build your own…

Try reading Drama of The Gifted Child by Alice Miller (short) - perhaps it will jog your mind into new patterns of awareness. The enneagram also might be of help. Therapy is hit or miss, be open to looking. talking might be the ticket.

don't respond to him at all. even defriending him is a response that will feed his ego. just unsubscribe so you don't see his posts and block the messages if he sends you another. defriend him after this is over in your head.

The first step of loving yourself is finding out who you are. Love is your guide, but start with appreciation - little reminders throughout the day of what things in your life are pleasing to you.