One AZ whackadoo wants abortion to be punishable by death.

Come on, chocolate. What else is Texas going to do with that money? They don’t need any infrastructure or anything, right? If only one guy could sue, that money would just be sitting there.

Of course he was incentivized by the $10k. God knows if he has a penny to his name right now. He’s not even religious, but the people who made this law knew that already didn’t they.

I just think most guys that talk shit about their wives are mostly full of shit. Most of those guys really need therapy or meds for their own issues.

Maybe if you are someone who never wanted kids and thought better to not live together then you’re not in the best position to weigh in on people who wanted different? Maybe we can just have a breath of compassion rather than continue to judge and put all the ownership on women to ensure you’ve got a partner who is…

I’m a guy and any guy who tells me (unironically certainly) that he’s a “good guy’ is immediately tagged as an asshat. A person can shout to the world how great they are, but really if you were that thing you’re probably too busy doing it to brag about it. I see a lot of stuff in these comments that hits home for me.…

“WHO MAKES MY LIST, MOTHERFUCKER?” is the bumper sticker I never knew I could need so much. That right there. 

I feel this so much. I envision my marriage as the two of us starting out on a boat together ready to sacrifice for each other and go on this wonderful journey. But after some floundering, he eventually says he doesn’t know how to row, and he didn’t pack the oars. So I got out and swam, pushing the boat for both of…

I don’t think a real partnership can exist without these deliberate choices. It may be a clinical process, it’s certainly not romantic, but it needs to be done.

That’s the thing. They do, but while we’re talking about equality, it’s not the same thing.

I think so many of us are stuck with the romantic image of what marriage is that the reality of partnership can be extremely difficult. Finding a middle ground, learning each other’s preferences, and putting in the actual work to be team members.

In my experience it’s a two way street. It’s very easy to blame your spouse for “taking advantage” of behavior that you’ve internalized while growing up. That’s for you to fix. If you can get the point where you own your emotions and are able to set boundaries, and your partner still doesn’t get it, then it’s time to…

The romantic in me wants to disagree with you but the more I sit here and think about it...yea. My husband is wonderful and I do think our marriage is a very well balanced partnership... I also feel like I have spent a lot of time and energy teaching him on how to be a functioning adult so we could have more of a…

I did a tally once, and my husband and I are about equal on average.

I know a lot of my negativity towards men comes from watching the women in my life suffer through their relationships. I would say that each of the women in my family was independent and her own person in her own way. But in their relationships they had to suppress their personalities and wants while being expected to…

THANK YOU for saying this. I also came from a family where not only my mother got fucked over, but almost every single one of my aunts got fucked over. And some of those women are still in their marriages and tell me they’re happy. But, they sure as fuck don’t look happy.

I’m sure it’s because I’m a barren millennial spinster with no prospects but I’m also sure it’s because I watched my mother and aunts struggle in their relationships with men that I am convinced that marriages with men are a true dice roll in life.

You certainly should not be producing children if you are in this level of recovery, though. He’s still struggling. I don’t judge him for struggling at this level, but I sure as fuck do for getting a woman pregnant—particularly not the one he was in a multiyear committed relationship with when sober—while still not…

Well, they also say not to make big decisions for a year after your spouse or SO dies, so it’s just a version of the same thing. You’re making big changes as it is, don’t mistake throwing the baby out with the bathwater as a positive change just because you’re already making so many changes in your life is more the…

So a rich white junkie/drunk of a fucc boi knocks up his side piece, while he’s still married to his wife. But hey, “Love Wins!” cause y’all think he’s white fucc boi cute?