Believe it or not, there are people that are into it. Keep in mind, of course, that it’s just a fantasy. It does sound so horrible now that the cat’s out of the bag though.

Eh. I think the knee-jerk cries of “sex negative!” and “kink shaming!” whenever anyone criticizes porn or kink in any way are ludicrous. I also think a depressing amount of commentary on this site over the past few days has been misinformed and self-righteous at best and mean-spirited and occasionally outright cruel…

I cannot understand why it is such a difficult concept for these individuals to understand. If someone says no, says a safe word, asks you to stop, or looks uncomfortable you should stop. It does not matter if they have consented to that sexual interaction or a different sexual interaction before, if they are your…

The justifications for keeping the material on the site.

This is why consent should be continuously taught in schools. Every year, every grade. UGH!

Isn’t it weird? My husband is from a similarly situated family, and I am both grateful for and hate the benefits I’ve derived from them during our relationship. I know for a fact that they will set up trust funds for our future child(ren) for college, and while I’m grateful, I’m also a little resentful because that’s…

This makes so much sense. And if people like this are unwilling to recognize informal financial help from their parents as real and actual help—the kind that counts—it’s no wonder that they’re also unwilling to notice and acknowledge informal racism (and other forms of oppression) as real. You know, the kind of…

Yeah, same. My parents have given me a pretty generous safety net with regards to many things. I can’t imagine pretending like I somehow have it the same as my friends who have had to pay their way through multiple degrees all on their own because they came from poor or working class families. I’m beyond grateful that…

You shouldn’t feel bad about it, at all (even if the general consensus is that you’re an awful, awful person! bad, millennial! bad!) It’s good that you acknowledge the help you received.

You answered your own question. They probably had the kind of sex that requires a safe word.

Well, his public image prior to this was as the guy who was not a threat or disgustingly porn-y.

Of interest: The porn industry is quicker to drop someone over allegations of rape than the NFL or NCAA.

ok then...like CHER!

Seriously, what’s wrong with this lady? If we found out about a guy like this, we’d completely dog him.

tfw you serially date uber religious dudes and then are like wtf bone me please and they are like dude what part of this did you not get and you’re like tru

Thank you so much for doing that. In 1988 I got an abortion at a PP in Brookline - the one attacked in 1994 - and I still vividly recall the woman who got right up in my face screaming at me while I waited to be buzzed into the clinic. There weren’t any volunteers outside that day to help me walk through the…

It amazes me that the threat of this kind of terror has become the new normal for clinics. It is simply not covered in the news. The most frequent time for people to become aware of the insane protesters outside the clinic is for them to arrive requiring services and be confronted by a screaming mob. Yet this is every…

My daughter worked escorting clients inside a clinic like this her senior year. Made me nervous then, I don’t think I’d be ok with that at all now. (As deeply as I respect her activism.)

Thank you for being an escort. With all my heart, thank you.

This makes me so sad and so fucking angry. Peace to their families. I’d wish for justice too but I’m not that naive.