As an INFP who studied psychology, I can affirm that the Myer-Briggs test is both full of shit and terribly fun to do. There ARE other personality tests out there, though, that have a little more scientific backing, like the Five Factor personality test, but even that one is subject to a lot of speculation and…

My goooooodddddddddd I need that cape

Man, reading all these bitter comments about bad experiences with therapists makes me realize how lucky I am to have mine, with whom I have a good relationship with. We enjoy each other, and are fairly open with each other. Though I suppose it does help to have a psychology background.

Neither I nor my boyfriend watch porn, and I know this for a fact because we are dating and know each other very well. I daresay the same goes for slc432. I also did not detect a 'badge of honor' tone from her - she stated that it was for 'a myriad of reasons', which can range anywhere from moral superiority to being…

I didn't actually say I preferred white men - simply my own boyfriend who I admit is a rare exception to any men, let alone white. I'm well aware of how most white men are. I was simply speaking from my own experience, which are naturally extremely biased. I don't doubt there are wonderful, thoughtful, insightful,…

Honestly, this whole thing is the reason why I can't bring myself to date Asian men, to the chagrin of my father who wants to keep the blood 'pure'. In my community the Asian guys were the hottest and most popular, and the Asian nerd stereotype was a background sort of thing. Even so, the Asian guys seem to be keenly…

Randomly out of nowhere while we're doing the do, he sticks his face between my breasts. I thought he was being sexy but nope, he was curious as to what it's like to blow the loudest raspberry in the history of mankind in a cleavage. His face of utter delight made me laugh so hard I bent his dick in my vagina and we…

I saw this all go down on Tumblr. These people are really really off in the deep end. Like THIS is how you decide to battle racism? They don't understand the meaning of 'it's not that simple', and accuse EVERYONE ELSE for doing it.

I think the problem many people have is a stark black/white perspective on cheating/being cheated, when they really should know better. I admit that I cheated. My boyfriend was abusive, manipulated my anxiety and depression, and tried to control me using pity and self-absorption. I met another guy, more gentle and…

This hits me in another way, though - people always, always assume my boyfriend is a yellow fever champion for having 'scored' me. Makes things worse when he's a Chinese major and studied abroad in Shanghai for a year, teaching kids English so he could save up to fly me there to travel the country with him. But my…

But what if I like to read these articles to tell my boyfriend what other people are telling him to think about? I find these articles simultaneously entertaining and brain-damaging, and my boyfriend, does, too.

Well I can't make you, but I would like to ask why instead.

I like that they're making an effort to diversify their writing team. They know how important it is, now. If Disney can do it and make success, then so can the rest of the film industry.

I dunno, I think Ellen Page looks really awkward here. I think it's because the suit jacket doesn't seem like it fits all that well?

I don't understand why people think J Law is only allowed to do one cute clumsy thing in her lifetime. If that's her personality, ok. In reality it doesn't have to be cute, but it's what Jennifer Lawrence is. I don't think her clumsiness is very cute, but neither do I think it's overbearing and all an act. It's just…

My SO and I take turns - for example, when he's visiting my end of the Atlantic, I buy the condoms. He buys them when I go there. The condoms in the UK are way more comfortable, but I prefer the inverted female ones the best. Too bad they aren't popular - they are not easy to find!

When I studied abroad to the UK, I was placed in a co-ed 5-bedroom flat. After I put my luggage in my room, one of the doors burst open and I came face to face with one of the prettiest boys I've ever seen. "Wow," I thought to myself, "I better avoid him, he's really attractive!" As the days past, it turns out that…

Thank you. The main thing for me was to know that not all fathers wanted to molest their children, and not all men were sex-obsessed and misogynist. It was tough with the first few relationships, but I did finally meet a guy who showed me not only that but also that I could heal in peace using trust and understanding.

Um, that's not a 'dating trick.' That's emotional manipulation.