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It wouldn't seem that way if sexism were over. Otherwise it would seem silly. But the context is that it isn't over and these ideas still affect us and color how we see women and what women should and shouldn't do. It's not that simply being a mother or simply being a working woman is wrong, it's that executives

Exactly. Their business relationship required nothing sexual whatsoever, but you can't have an interaction between an influential politician in D.C. and a female cub reporter without her touching his dick now, can you?

Yes, that's why I disliked Zoe Barnes so much. If any female character is attractive, young, and villainous, or in Barnes' case just ambitious and unethical, it is REQUIRED that she seduce. If it's not sexist, it's at least a cliche you see coming from a mile away.

No, it's just interesting that there are fewer working moms in sitcoms and dramas than there are in real life. The issue is suggesting that women can't do both if they want to, because that notion still upsets people.

Yeah, all of the main female characters except for Mulan and Bae's fiancé are white, but I think they're more "normal" looking women than some tv shows. They have more 30-something women which is some progress, kind of.

Love that gif. One of my favorite Bill Hader sketches of all time. Unfortunately, like another commenter said, it would have to do with her luring men with her good looks somehow. Whenever women manipulate or trick on tv it's through shaking the ta-tas unfortunately.

Maybe they're not bad people but maybe said guy is not sexually compatible for her and that's reason enough to break it off. Any relationship counselor will say that sex is an important part of a relationship, and if there are certain things he can't get past, and he does something that disgusts him but she would

I wouldn't give up just yet. My first boyfriend didn't ever do oral and at first I thought that was normal, but every man after that was enthusiastic so my expectations changed. Maybe you're finding jerks because you think you're not good enough and they sense it. Not that I'm saying wishing for a better man will get

But here's where I disagree with you. It's not like his crime was that he didn't say "Your vagina is so fucking beautiful. I couldn't imagine a more divine labia." The expectation is not that he worship it and get an erection just looking at it alone, the expectation is that he doesn't tell her it's DISGUSTING. It's

I don't really see how you got that from what she said. It sounds like she isn't asking for all that much, in fact, maybe too little? Definitely too little. And what do you mean "women today"? You mean women didn't have enough economic or social power at a certain point that they could DECIDE not to partner up with

Men who like making you feel good and don't find your vagina hideous (and that's what we're talking about here, not thinking your vagina is most beautiful thing ever made) are NOT as rare as unicorns. Men who want to have sex with women generally like them "down south." It's common.

That's why I can't get into porn. Watching people do stuff to each other vs. being touched by another person and experiencing it. The other is such a poor substitute it's just not worth it. I disagree that it means a person isn't visual and I don't think men are any more "visual" than women. We're all visual in the

"As a man, I would agree that the sight of a vagina sitting there wouldn't really do much for me, it literally was a hideous alien in Starship Troopers."

Yeah, it's the behavior that is cause to use the word "disgusting," rather than the penis itself.

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She looks so effortlessly glamorous that sometimes it disgusts me. I mean that in the best possible way.

Yes, I get what you're generally getting at. I try to avoid any sort of criticism, even if it isn't a celebrated part of the body, but when you're with someone longer it feels safer to make a remark about someone's rough elbows or in my case, Cinderella's stepsister's feet. Nobody should be so sensitive that a funny

Oh, I see. Well I'm sorry, I shouldn't have something casually hurtful. I just don't want people to go on thinking stuff like that.

Nope. I hope you're a teenager. You have to be. I look at my SO whenever he's naked in front of me, before after or during sex. I don't really know how heterosexual woman can..well, be heterosexual (or bisexual) without liking penis. If this is the case, they likely have some repressed things going on. It's one thing

I'm with you on that. I don't think genitals, male or female, are all that appealing visually. The balls are the worst though. YEAH I SAID IT. But goddamnit, I have no earthly idea why I would ever voice such a thought to anyone I was dating. "Balls in general are gross, but yours..."