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Am I the only one who finds scruff and general facial hair really inconvenient? Visually I love it but I had the worst chin burn from a bearded fellow, and it looked terrible for like a week.

He is a such a hottie. And he's bisexual, right? As a bisexual lady who doesn't meet many bisexual men that's a rare find. The eyebrows, the lips, the hair...takes cold shower.

The slicked back hair is pretty precious.

That's right! These women can be saved. I was. I put up with a lot of BS from my guy friends until one day it was too much and I realized I would never be one of the guys. That probably happened when one of them viciously attacked me for wanting to buy "Full Frontal Feminism" knowing nothing about it, just hating the

I put up with that 1920s era Jessica Biel movie just so I could see Ben Barnes and it was TOTALLY worth it. I can't describe what it is...maybe those eyes...

I was going to put up with this for the chance to see the luminescent Ben Barnes...but I'm not I can get through it after reading the reviews. And the previews hardly feature him at all...it's like very wedding movie...it hardly ever has jack shit to do with the groom.

I was thinking of a Bratz doll. But the older Beyonce gets the more cat-faced she will probably get.

I hate the numbers thing so much because beauty is so subjective. I know that I rate myself a certain way but I hate when people act like there is one beauty reality. I was on a date recently where a man asked me what I would rate myself as and I picked a number that would portray me as not low confidence but not

She still has beautiful eyes and a tiny button nose though. Her eyes are like a Disney villianess' and that is a huge compliment!

That sounds pretty awesome.

Not helping? Wow. Yeah, I guess the images are drastically different. There are people who think lesbians can't possibly have a good time without penises so they obviously have a low sex drive and then there are people like my mom, who when she saw The L Word a few years ago, said, "This is just reinforcing what

Yes, so true! The WSJ does a fantastically awful job at writing about sex and/or women. Most of their editors appear to be living in a different time period. Their attempts at exploring social changes are so bad that I often think they are really really trying to fail.

Yes, this too! It's like you have to force yourself to act in a way that's unnatural and have the normal couple stuff or be yourself and stay inside all the time. It's like they can't hold two ideas in their head at once. Oh wait! That's called the madonna/whore complex.

Yes, totally get it. And I'm almost a little worried at times about partners finding out or judging me for it (ridiculous, I know) so I play it down. But I think women can get some judgment for being the ones to pursue sex, even with someone they've been dating for a while. Judgment from men at least since I've never

I can understand if he's concerned about diseases. But if she's going down on him all the time, I think he should have told her he can't reciprocate right now, and why, on a more specific level.

Yes! And mainstream porn doesn't help men develop normal expectations around female orgasms either.

It isn't nearly the same thing, but I have dealt with similar situations. I think, on his part, that it has to do with thinking that he needed a woman to be screaming, and have multiple orgasms, in order to feel like he was succeeding in pleasing me. He was succeeding but I got tired of being asked during sex how many

I, personally, don't have any less respect for her because she didn't use a capital I. The people who operate within those confines are the people I am referring to. I know plenty of crusty old men who have power in some way or another who use grammatical or spelling errors to write off a smart, capable person,

I'm pretty convinced that not knowing any of this information or his affiliation with Romney...just seeing his face alone, I would still want to punch him. He just has that look. It's hard to describe WHY he looks like such a prick. he just does.

Somebody's really upset, geez. We agree with her. Who cares if it's tumblr? Good grammar is generally a good idea if you want to be taken seriously by people. Sorry! It's the way the world works. I don't like to leave any excuses for people to treat me like a bimbo, even though I know a few people will still call me