Exactly. I don't want romance, I just want to see the attractive (in this case) man's face, not have every moment be about power or objectification (which doesn't mean it can't be intense) or have the power reversed without it being fetishized. The idea that all women need candles and a back story is annoying, though…

Co-signed. It's really difficult to find good lesbian porn. To me, it's depicted as "play" not sex. Maybe it looks less threatening to the male hetero viewer?

That's a great point. There is nothing wrong with that mainstream brand of porn existing and women enjoying it but it would just be nice if there were more variety. Especially less facelessness...Is it so much to ask?

Poor baby. Would you like a blanky? Some hot cocoa perhaps?

Oh, poor thing. You can't comment on random women's looks anymore? Because that's the broader issue I'm talking about. It's not as if I'm outraged when my friends (male or female) say so, or when a man respectfully approaches me at a bar.

I love how men think that being a reasonably attractive young woman is some great ride. Like other commenters mentioned, I get catcalled, cornered in doorways, approached and intimidated late at night when I'd rather be left alone...attractive rich men in three piece suits aren't following me around asking to be my…

It also says that all "attractive" women (I quote it because it's pretty subjective) LOVE getting attention. I find that women whose looks are complimented less mostly think it's no big deal as opposed to being upset about it. The women I know who are harassed on the regular are the most angry because they deal with…

The thing is, Dave, your opinion doesn't matter to all women in all social contexts. Just because you feel compelled to tell a woman what you think of her looks doesn't mean you should. Why do you feel like you need to say it? Think about it. Then get back to me.

Exactly. When it's a compliment the attitude is "How dare you not enjoy my compliment?" But the thing is, I didn't ask for it, dude. I know that your opinion is supposed to be gold because you have a penis but I could care less.

If you are comparing a woman refusing to have sex with an overweight male (extremely overweight) to a woman refusing to have sex with a hot black dude then I just can't reason with you....beyond help.

As someone who has had relationships with two black men, I get this. Once my white ex found out I was dating a black man he just cowered after plenty of attempts of trying to get back together while I was dating white men. He was really egotistical but that was the tipping point. The other problematic things about…

Dayum. Thanks.

Ugh. Do I really have to explain this again? Maybe you're the same one?

Nope, not seeing that. Pretty average looking for the most part.

The thing is, there aren't many opportunities for women in politics to say this because there aren't many women in politics. So...that context should tell you something right there. We're not starting at an equal place here.

You can't consider that some black women may not appreciate it either? What makes you think it's only white women? And who says everyone who objects gives Clinton a free pass? I certainly don't.

It's not "classy" to point out sexist bullshit. Gotcha.

It would seem ridiculous if men and women were always treated as equals. I don't think Obama thought "Let's put this woman in her place" but it does show that he thinks of her as an attractive woman first and attorney general second, a message that does put women back in their place.

Yeah...that is ridiculous because she's HIS WIFE.

It's exhausting that we have to continue to tell people why this shit is unacceptable.