Sorry you’re so bitter about your life. That’s not really my problem but thanks for sharing?

She literally made them tell her their investment strategies, and then she’d mock them for any losses and such. Her findom practice was exclusively about sex and finance. They’d tell her “I bought Bitcoin today” and she’d reply “Oh, if you were SMART you’d have bought it four years ago. You’d have increased your…

That was my first thought, everyone on here is like ooh easy money but I’m like uh-uh that sounds exhausting.

Perhaps, but can the FinDoms melt belly fat with just 1 weird trick?

It’s like any other job: you work. You need marketing, advertising, to attend lifestyle events, and most importantly, to interact with your clients. Its not “free money.” Sorry.

The casual, ha-ha-isn’t-sex-work-fun tone of this article is frankly irresponsible. That one paragraph addressing the downsides completely neglects the risk of public outing, stalking, and even violence findoms can face.

I was thinking that too. Actual domming sounds exhausting, but I’d write some nasty emails for $50 a pop.

I was domming semi-professionally at 19 and did fine, but I definitely look back on some of the dudes I met now with more concern than I did at the time.

THANK YOU! And you are dead on. I always see vanilla women on these articles like “sounds fun and easy, sign me up!” and um...no. You work for your money just like any other job. Psychological forms of domination (like findom) are often more exhausting and time consuming than physical domme work.

There’s an art to parting them with their cash, and it involves locating all their fetish buttons but holding off on hitting them until they pay you. Otherwise they’re perfectly happy to string you along and text you their wank fantasies ad nauseum until you get bored. I’ve turned time wasters into steady clients…

Noooo, PLEASE don’t do this. I did some findom back in the day, and the market has already been flooded by clueless sugar baby wannabes who don’t understand this is sex work and not just sitting online raking in cash. 99% of them wash out quickly once they realize there’s actual work involved, but it still devalues…

Dead on with all your observations. One thing that I often hear from dommes of the non-professional sort is that they genuinely can’t figure out a lot of the men they do so with, and to me that’s a very short hop to concluding that a sub is mentally unstable. To me, that is a do-not-pass-go moment as a dom for a…

Using a burner for this one. I know somebody who does this and she used to be morbidly obese with a prettyish face. She’s thinner now; although the scantily clad angles she reveals are ... hmm ... let’s go with “carefully crafted”. She’s in her 30s and has another more socially acceptable career to fall back on. The…

Ex-professional dominatrix here. I had a few findom clients but chose not to focus my practice around it. I found that the guys can be REALLY high maintenance. People often think findom is an easy, no effort way to make money (a mistake people make about sex work in general) but it is NOT.

On the other hand, what’s it worth to you to live without all those creepy conversations imbedded in your mind?  

how she earned $42,000 in a day from one guy

I know a woman who used to do this. She learned a GREAT deal about stock trading and forex, thanks to her client base. Anyone who had some regular cryptocurrency clients probably made a killing.

So once a cash pig and I matched on Tinder. I told him that I had created an Amazon wishlist and that if he behaved I would let him treat me. Also that the day before-ish I had made a major online purchase and that it was too bad that he lost out on that opportunity. It was great fun and nothing came of it.

And here I’ve been being rude to men FOR FREE like some kind of IDIOT.

I achieved the highest level of education in my field and I can barely pay bills. $42,000 in one day??? FUCK ME I HATE LIFE.