Yes exactly! I was also pretty bummed by that article. Sometimes the knee jerk pro-porn types will go really overboard defending it.

Indeed. That article pissed me off because a large part of it was devoted to “exposing” that one of the girls featured in the film who claimed she was done with porn was actually still an active performer. The author went to great lengths to do some digging to finally unearth this “gotcha” moment that felt incredibly…

A few months ago, there was a really strong and strange (to me) critique of the movie Hot Girls Wanted for shining a light on an aspect of the porn industry that is very woman un-friendly. The article read to me like it was accusing the documentary producers of taking a hardline, anti-porn stand, which I don’t think…

Have you ploughed both a field and a butt? I have, and I’m going to have to strongly disagree. Butt plowing > field plowing.

“The commenters outside looked from feminist to troll, and from troll to feminist, and from feminist to troll again; but already it was impossible to say which was which.”

Remember folks, flag and dismiss the trolls. DO NOT ENGAGE.

I’m black and I couldn’t agree with you less.

A little more background:

She’s an asshole and he’s an asshole. But he put hands on her and it’s his shitty luck that he didn’t call the cops instead of acting and reacting like an asshole when she put hands on him.

“Grand Central called the piece ‘one of the highest trafficked pieces in Gawker’s history.’” It was not, FYI. One of the highest trafficked dating essays, yes.

It’s very telling that in her narrative, she admits to not being a saint and never asks anyone to take her side or attack him, while he plays the martyr who did nothing wrong, makes it about race (which is, conveniently, the theme of his maybe book) and explicitly insults anyone who believes her and not him. Typical.

I get it. We are not juries; we don’t need to decide right this moment. We can wait and watch and reserve our reactions for for some other time. We can extend symapthy for Stoya and deal with it later if new information arises. We can be kind now, and that is what matters.

I never know what to do with these kinds of cases. I am a survivor of rape, and deeply believe in showing support and compassion to victims, but at the same time I am deeply uncomfortable with the idea that a person’s personal and professional life can and should be ruined based on two tweets, with absolutely no…

http://www.billboard.com/articles/57704…

This is a piece Sia wrote herself on the topic of hiding her face. I know some people think you choose to be criticized as a public figure when you make music or make it big. I personally like that Sia chooses to hide her face and focus on her music. That way people can like or…

Fuck him.

I don’t. It’s an exorbitant amount. He should get something a bit more proportionate to the suffering he has experienced.

Fuck that. This was the best thing that ever happened to this kid, and he was in no way ‘damaged’ to the point of 15 million dollars.

What every fancy bitch needs? A bidet. But it’s not always easy to just plow some room in your bathroom to put one next to your toilet. So next best thing is this bidet seat that replaces your toilet seat. You can set it to heat so in those cold winter nights when you need a midnight tinkle, you can enjoy the warmth…

No. I’m suggesting kids are really expensive for a wide range of reasons that be explored here.