It’s merch from the My Favorite Murder podcast. You can find it on their website.

It’s also a hell of a lot of pressure.

“Boys don’t cry”

If at any point someone says to your son “boys don’t cry” slap that person across the face, because that’s exactly how it starts.

Lego “friends” is one of the most infuriating things that exist in todays world. I’m not even kidding. 

A great book to read for those who have sons is “Raising Cain” by Dan Kindlon, PhD. He’s a therapist for troubled boys and he addresses toxic masculinity and how it impacts the emotional wellbeing of men and boys alike. (It’s also good for those with daughters; a lot of what he says applies to all teens in general).

The thing is though (and i say this as a straight man) is that you can give up the toxic masculinity for the most part and the world isn’t really going to take away your privilege. I mean, you might have to do a little more housework or something, but by and large 90 percent of the privilege is still there. We still…

Hey, if you’re thinking at all about the life of another human being in hopeful and helpful ways, you and your kid are already streets ahead of Trump.

Dissent from gender ideology (not just the transgender stuff, but the establishment’s view of what men and women are)

Sometimes that happens and it’s not your fault. 

I’ve actually spent a lot of time thinking about how toxic masculinity develops, as I’m expecting my first son any day now.  The last thing I want is to be on my death bed thinking I spawned some shithead like Donald. 

Yeah, fresh frozen fish is usually almost as good as fresh. Dungeness crab freezes very well even at home. 

Theres nothing wrong with canned crab. There’s something wrong with $4 shelf stable cans of crab.

I meant for the pasta dish, but, yeah, the Krab thing was a bit of a joke.

Oooooooooh. I like that!

evoo + garlic + pasta + good (oil packed) canned tuna + salt/pepper + whatever green spice you have lying around + splash of lemon

If you must, make crab cakes with the canned crab, but you’re really better off with Krab.

That’s an excellent idea.

1. Throw away canned crab.