I absolutely see the logic in your reasoning and think you’re spot on about what’s going on in her head. But shit, when do we start demanding that people who lack imagination live outside of their own experiences? You’ve done about a thousand times more mental work than Pam has just in this comment, but she’s given a…

There is a difference between advising women not to let their guard down and saying that women who ostensibly have let their guard down are making excuses for fucking up when they get raped while their guard is down. Will I advise my daughter to be careful and not drink too much at parties lest she end up incapable of…

Look, some women can be the most ardent supporters of an oppressive patriarchal system. Pam has survived in spite of/by virtue of her physical attributes all her life and can’t see the forest for the trees.

“I think it’s all kind of silly, really, that we’re having this discussion 20 years later.”

Good. I wish EVERYONE who claims to be feminist or progressive would sever ties. I’ll never forget the Jia Tolentino piece on Jezebel which in my very humble opinion did not go far enough at all, and the scores of commenters who were willing to give Lena pass after motherfucking pass despite example after…

I feel like when people accuse others of sexual misconduct they are expecting a Scooby Doo confession. “LIKE YEAH I MASTURBATED IN FRONT OF THOSE WOMEN AND I WOULDA GOTTEN AWAY WITH IT IF IT WASN’T FOR THOSE MEDDLING JOURNALISTS!”

I love Joe Biden as much as the next person, but I will always hold the Anita Hill proceedings against him. He wasn’t the only person involved in the process, but as the person in charge he gets the most of the blame for what happened because it was in his power to fix it.

I think Cardi B isn’t saying that she isn’t a feminist, because right after disavowing that word, she defines what feminism means to her and what kind of a feminist she is, and it is a definition that is pretty much right. If you parse her words, you can tell she’s saying that she isn’t a White Feminist - there is a…

No because they’re being careful.

No, absolutely not. It does not matter how much they are paid or how much they are in the public eye. Having naked images of you stolen and then being blackmailed to prevent their release is 100% NOT part of their job.

I don’t think it’s unrealistic at all. I met my husband at work. We were friendly, but not flirtatious. He asked me if I’d like to join him and a group of friends for dinner after work. If I’d said “no,” he would have never asked me again. We became friends. After deciding he’d like to date me, he found another job,…

Okay please. Yes he is privileged but that resume above cannot be achieved by privilege alone. Come ON.

Fair enough, I don’t watch the show. It just feels a little bit misguided to me, particularly in our current climate, to make a song that’s essentially supporting #notallmen.

I think he kind of says “...because I was a shitty person.”

Who would have thought that Quentin Tarantino would be the first person to admit he knew Weinstein was crossing the line and he should have been a better person and not worked with him?

Once again: no one cares how lovely your dick is. Keep it in your pants and you’ll be fine.

No one is calling YOUR dick inherently repellent. Maybe the middle of a huge sex abuse scandal is not the time to whip out your #notalldicks grievances.

Mansplaining: now for men as well!

Because it seems that a great many men are under the delusion that everyone else should find their penis delightful and enchanting.

This is all fine advice, but some men really do have a problem understanding woman words, so please allow me, a man, to translate: don’t touch your peepee in public.