Why is he hanging out in Malibu with Leo, when he has a GF and an infant daughter at home?

I think this was their one disagreement ever because Jay Z learned to never disagree with her again.

The inverse of this is that there is a valid reason to mistreat women.

No. He tanked Carpenter because she dared to get pregnant while on Angel and he didn’t like it. Google it. There’s plenty out there about how much of an asshole he was to her.

It’s totally possible to be both (I was, a long time ago) but it’s impossible to be a womanizer and a feminist, which is really the grosser accusation here.

YES, this. Not to mention that when you read her whole post, it seems as though a lot of gaslighting and emotional manipulation was going on. That shit is fucked up.

Did you actually read her letter? She’s not saying her husband cheated. She’s saying that he gaslighted her for 20 years while he was a womanizer. There’s a big difference between committing infidelity and doing that. She says that she’s been diagnosed with complex PTSD since piecing together the truth.

What I get from her is, “If I’d only known, if I’d known the truth, I could have ended this 15 years ago. I could have made choices for myself.” Which is such a valid thing to say/feel. I used to tell FWB, “Just tell me when you’re seeing someone else.” Because I wanted it to be MY CHOICE if I exposed myself to STIs.…

I forgive her because she lived through sixteen years of her husband being lauded as a feminist god friend and champion paragon on virtue while he was actually screwing around on her. I would be pretty pissed off too.

Yeah? Feminists blame the beautiful, needy, aggressive young women for their affairs?

Yup, just saw one similar yesterday. “I can’t talk about this right now, I just need everyone to send prayers and good thoughts, things are just so bad but I can’t say anything yet, keep us in your hearts”, that kind of deal. I’d be concerned if they didn’t do this like once a month.

Ugh. Only thing that’s worse is when someone makes a vague statement like “Please pray for my baby rn” and then disappears as everyone frantically asks what’s wrong. I’ve been off Facebook for years but I assume people still do this.

Me reading your comment:

Yeah, I’ll admit there are a couple of people I stay friends with simply for all their drama.

God, so true. Most of my facebook friends are like, my actual friends (or at least were at one point) and are generally pretty restrained but luckily the people who post absurd drama on facebook are the same people who don’t know/don’t care about privacy settings. Every once in a while a friend of a friend goes off…

And then the next day when they delete everything they posted and announce they’re “taking a break from Facebook.”

I know Zuck tries to tell us Facebook/social media is going to change the world, build stronger connections, and make everything better.

I need a “I <3 TS” shirt.

Great! As good as it is that Taylor is giving a sizable donation, it’s also great that Joyful Heart is going to get a lot of publicity from this. Hopefully people will find out about the work they do and get involved/donate too.

I know it’s not the case for everyone, but if I were Britney, I would totally want my dad as head of my finances, and I would be happy that he profited instead of someone else. My dad was great with money and he always had his kids best interest at heart.