A single black person as well. So much diversity!

Hey - there are a handful of asians in that pic, so there is totally a ton of diversity happenin’.

For me it definitely took a few years of “cutting back”, and then not, and then coming up with rules (a water or soda between every drink), then breaking those rules until one day it finally clicked that the only way to stop was to stop.

The very best advice I’ve ever heard about dealing with any catastrophic scenario out of your own control (fire, flood, nuke war, etc.) is simply survive the next five minutes. Rinse and repeat. When you break time up into relatable, controllable chunks, it prevents panic by suppressing hopeless dread (or, hopeless…

Let me say this first, so as I don’t seem like a total dick: I admire your recovery and the way you wrote this article, as well as your honesty. But I must say I find AA to be a boorish Christian recruitment tool that is not suitable for most people with a problem. It works for some, but those people are also more…

I haven’t had a drink in 14 years (my anniversay was feb 9th.) I wasn’t forced, and I’ve had a few mistakes (nothing serious, a few sips at a work wine tasting, an accidental sip of a vodka tonic of my wifes when I thought I was grabbing my water. I quit at age 23, which is weird enough, as that is usally a partying…

Exactly what I came here to say. You never saw it because you’re not a woman, you moron with an illness (since apparently that matters in this situation). He didn’t have a need nor desire to sexually harass you.

Take if [sic] from a guy with an illness

That’s because he doesn’t want you to suck his dick, Neil.

Absolutely and it applies to ALL violence against women: harassment, catcalling, rape, domestic violence—what’s the common factor? Disbelief of the victim (female) and solidarity for the criminal perpetrator. It continues a cycle of common violence/abuse and actually protects and coddles our abusers. And it is…

When I tell my stories, I’ve had men get near physical violence with me. They do not want to hear us. And they will blame US. We are the harridans, we are hysterical, we hate men. It’s neverending, honestly. I’d rather talk to a wall at this point. At least the wall won’t call me a bitter cunt.

I sometimes think if men knew the actual truth, they’d die of shame from silencing women all these years. It’s why they fight us so hard when we do attempt to tell our stories: they do NOT want to know that this happened to women they cared about—their moms, grandmothers, great-grandmothers (god knows worse things…

It was fascinating to watch the Bill Cosby narrative shift seamlessly — and almost instantaneously — from “If he’s been doing this for so many years, there would be hundreds of victims, so he can’t possibly be guilty” to “All these accusers prove that women are just jumping on the bandwagon for a payday, so he can’t…

If a guy calls a girl a slut guys have no problem believing him. But if 40 women accuse a guy of being a sexual predator people still don’t believe them.

Sugar and flour are the devil. Avoid refined whites. Kind of a good rule in general, actually.

Oh, I forgot: something something public lynching something trial by association of guilt or whatever QED bitches and lying and such. Lessee: golddiggers shaming male sexuality what was she in a hotel for anyway payday May Day Manic Monday etc et al also Assange or whatever. Fin.

You jest, but point in fact, the loss occurred when they were down three players because of the detentions. I can hear on the horizon the bellowing whinges of a thousand affronted Anglophone dudes who’ve never watched men’s volleyball in their life but are now uberfans bewailing the Politically Correct Police State cum…

‘“It’s really hard to understand how this could happen, how somebody could do that to children,” local police lieutenant Dan McGrath told the press.’

BECAUSE CHRISTIAN VALUES!!!!!

Truth. I had a friend whose ex wouldn’t go down on her because she literally did not have time in her schedule to get a wax and he just bitched and moaned the whole time about it. He was cheating on her. Assholes will be assholes about everything and anything. Men don’t pass up sex because of pubic hair. Inexperienced…