I actually disagree with those examples, even if your broader point is valid. Kanye basically called her a hoe, so her doing “porn-star” sex acts like titty-fucking or sucking his dick is still him in power because “that’s what hoes do”. Putting a finger in an asshole is about showing comfort and vulnerability, so…

I don’t even see how people can hate on her for this. She’s minding her own business and he starts talking shit about her (for the umpteenth time), she can air out whatever she wants. She can publish his second grade report cards and be totally justified. You don’t want want your dirty laundry aired, don’t talk shit…