I’ve done both and it really did depend on the circumstances.

I like the way you distinguish between sins of commission and sins of omission. Those two groups of sinners need each other to game the system, and each can blame the other for creating conditions of systemic injustice.

It’s like an endless game of whack-a-mole, except the moles are boners

Her hair looks beautiful, and I can’t imagine what actual problem there could be with it. Zara have opened themselves up to some serious problems here I think. Unless they have an actual “no braids” policy, which I highly doubt they do.

Before I read this article there’s one question I have to ask. Is he for or against it?

Uh oh. I accidentally saw an email last night that my cat sent to this photgrapher setting up a special photography session with his wonderful owner NEXT WEEK.

I’m a GenXer and my eyes were permanently ruined by all the eye rolling I did in the ‘90s at the shit the Boomers wrote about us. Some things never change.

Thought Catalog is the worst thing written *by* millennials. This is the worst thing written ABOUT millennials.

This is the worst? You’ve clearly never visited Thought Catalog.

Same with people of color who go to Trump’s rallies to support him and are shocked they’re distrusted and attacked: I’m supposed to feel bad that you’re so naive or stupid that you think you can support a racist and not have it blow up in your face? I can’t deal with that kind of cognitive dissonance.

I know, this paragraph just killed me:

Female ex-GOP here. When it’s how your entire worldview is informed from birth, “brain damaged” maybe isn’t quite as accurate as “brainwashed”.

Well said. The lack of persistent follow up questions to his banalities is truly infuriating.

First off - the fact that this man has no empathy and is clearly a narcissist is one thing. But can we please acknowledge that he can not even speak about “women” or “women’s issues” without talking as if he’s speaking to men about them? By that, I mean he will keep saying “I’m gonna be so good for women. Women love…

Nah, it’s still shitty. She’s saying vulnerable people can’t withdraw their support from the process when it assiduously refuses to represent them.