I need ideas! I want a sexier bedroom. Paint colors? Material for nightstands? My bedroom is tiny so I want it to feel warm and adult. Thanks!!

I’m drinking good red wine from South Africa. Instead of going face first into a gallon of ice cream... I also ate cheddar cheese like a candy bar

So depression sucks. Bottomed out earlier in the week and couldn’t bring myself to talk to anyone. BUT, I had started a meal service and so instead of eating trash, I had prepared meals of protein and veg. So that was good. Ended up meeting someone who likes cheese, has liberal politics, and a voice where when you…

Spread the tale of your success to other men. Maybe they, too, will start acting like humans. Yay you!!! I’m happy for you!!

You might drink more, if you were dating now. Some days you’d question what was wrong with you that people were treating you like this. Other days you’d just focus on other things and recognize that you’re never going to meet anyone. It would be a lot of fun! ;)

I see that. And I’ve heard people give the same reason for ghosting—they don’t want to hurt the person. Because just never saying anything is better??? It is illogical. This behavior is just as rude and hurtful—they just think they can avoid the consequences. I think it is cowardly to ghost.

Why can’t people just say no, thank you if they are not interested in a date? I’d asked a guy a few days ago if he wanted to get asked beer today. We picked a time. Today I message to reconfirm and he is all, sorry I’m behind. Ok, that’s fine. But why not cancel? Friends have also made plans with men and then when…

It is almost impossible. He got an insane amount of cuddles at the 5k. I was shocked by the amount of attention he got.

I’m fostering to adopt this little old man. 12, deaf, toothless. Walks well on a leash, loves a nap and a cuddle. Met all the ladies at the 5k this morning. A little too interested in my two cats, but I can’t imagine giving him back, even after only 2 days.

And I’m going to be a different voice. You may not find someone. It might happen you are single for a long time. You may never get into a relationship over a few months. Or, you may meet someone tomorrow. Everyone saying you will for sure find someone is wrong. We can’t know for sure for everyone that they will find a…

Again, even thinking about being mildly presentable and a decent conversationalist... you will do well.

You will. Here’s the thing—be a nice person. Ask questions, don’t just expound on facts about yourself. Buy a drink. Wear a nice shirt snf comb your hair. Boom. You now have dating skills beyond 80 percent of men. I’m not even kidding. You will get laid.

I agree. We expect people not to be absorbed in their lives and their problems automatically. But why would you be? Yes, empathy and one would hope you would go out beyond your comfort zone and fight for what’s right but... we don’t automatically.

Get your own. They split the commission on the sale with the realtor selling the house. Shop around and get recommendations. I worked with mine for two years. She was wonderful and patient and had been through the last housing crash, so wouldn’t let me get crazy with bidding.

Get the sewer line checked. Where I’m at that is extra. I got one and it was all clear. Yay! My friend got one and had she not, she wouldn’t have known tree roots were growing into it. She was able to put it into contract to get it repaired.

Oh my god the fixer upper!!! I bought one and I love my shitty house but DAMN it is exhausting and expensive. Looking back, I’d rather buy a ready one and have the expense all in the loan. But also don’t buy a flip unless it is super solid.

By stealing the bed...

It just keeps coming. Wave after wave after wave. There are questions to ask about foreign aid. And involvement in foreign countries. Including activities the military is engaging in to ‘win hearts and minds’. And questions about special projects members of Congress take particular interest in. And the promotion of…

There’s been a lot of heated discussion and anger on the board. But a lot of people are still going. The idea of intersectional feminism has been new, the old organizers weren’t open to discussion and so the new organizers have been having a lot of conversations. Some people have written that they no longer feel…

Hoorah!!!