that link to cancer is tenuous...so, you are probably fine.

Real talk, I air pop and then ruin/improve it by melting my own butter and dousing it with that amazingness, plus a metric ton of salt. So. Good.

I think that part of the distinction is in the details. Stranded disabled driver trumps (pun intend-ish) deterred diners.

Well, the other thing is that the owner of this business is vehemently denying what is being alleged, rather than boasting to the press that Jesus told him to kick out the would-be patrons...

They were refused because they were belligerent drunks.

taco bowels

I unapologetically love Savages and maybe wanted to be her in that movie.

i mean, she was good in sisterhood of the traveling pants.

So the issue you have is that he is a feminist but also posts pics of his pecs? Like you can’t think women deserve equal treatment and also lift?

People in this very forum are suggesting he’s creepy. Just because he’s too feminist and a little vain. I don’t see the benefit in pushing that men should only be politely, daintily, tastefully feminist. This guys is into it and passionate about it, and wants to show that. If it garners him praise, fine, that’s fine,…

Because I offered a different take without actually saying anything shitty about your opinion, and you responded by ignoring what I said, putting words in my mouth, and then mocking me.

I didn’t say that, and I didn’t say his activism is perfect, and I didn’t say that an ulterior motive was impossible? You’re reading a lot of combative shit into my one-line comment that just isn’t there. It just seems like you’re really itching to start a fight with whoever you can. And hey, good luck with that. I’m…

Some people just want to find something... ANYTHING... to complain about. I love and appreciate what he’s doing. I even bought his Women’s Day shirt. (It’s very, very soft, by the by. It’s a new fave.) He doesn’t deserve hate or eye rolling from the feminist community. It’s bullshit.

Posted this in another thread:

Because we can’t have nice things.

Why does he deserve eye rolling?

Now, as I’m reading through the comments, I’m seeing hate for him... why the hate for him? He is the literal definition of “woke bae” (as much as I hate that term) He is trying, yes, he makes mistakes as we all do, he admits and learns from and moves on ... so why the hate?

I do absolutely get the “it’s easier for a man to be a feminist” thing. Every now and then a troll will presume I’m a woman and I’ll get a fraction of the gendered harassment that women on this site get, and it’s such a heartbreakingly personal reminder of how I, as an ally, can't truly understand the psychic toll of…