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He was always allowed to sue, the judge only said he could amend his lawsuit. Leave it to Jezebel to flat out lie for clicks.

He said he can sue, not that he can have the embryos. Basically passing the buck to another judge.

Shit. So basically it doesn’t matter that he signed a contract that said they both had to agree to either to bring them to term, keep them frozen or destroy them, and nobody could do whatever they wanted.

All love and respect due, but these comments are not people being rigid about nontraditional relationships, honey. This is a bunch of women who read your description of this man’s behavior, recognized it from past mistakes, and are telling you what a strong, independent woman learns to do in response to the all too…

You’re asking for advice and then rejecting what you get. A lot of us have been where you are, and we’re trying to spare you. Frankly, this sounds like self destructive behaviour. I’m not a professional, but I’m seeing someone who has constricted themselves for a very long time out of fear and now you’re looking for…

Can’t afford WiFi and my laptop broke few months ago. I’m used to it. i write essays in this bitch. Lol

You’re not the one that’s having an affair, you’re single. The words, power, balance, tips, tricks in your post scream red flags. I think you know in your heart this won’t end well, for you. I don’t judge you, I could give two shits about the moral aspect. You’ve said you’ve had some screwed up relationships, this…

Here’s the thing, men have affairs and it’s not cool. You want to be in control then say no because the only one you can control is yourself. There is no way of goingabout this successfully and its not a relationship.

“If in six months I get into UCLA (my dream school) ... I’ll consider everybodys input ...”

I’ve gotta say, you are taking the reactions REALLY well. Big points for that.

I don’t know if my story is really applicable to you, but I offer it for whatever its is worth. When I started law school I was in a relationship that was borderline at best. I wasn’t sure of my feelings about him, but we were long distance so I thought that I could compartmentalize my feelings about that relationship…

First off, it’s ‘advice’ with a ‘c’. Secondly, stop fucking married men. You’re not nearly as in control as you think and this is going to end badly

I think he chose you because you are smart and he knows that you think you are in control. I do think he sounds manipulative and I think there is very possibly more to all of this that is not being disclosed. If you are the type of person who can't jyst fuck someone and forget about it you might be setting yourself up…

You’re not comfortable. Your gut is telling you there’s something wrong about it. You feel weird. So listen to yourself and stop.

Can you keep him on the mere fringe of your life, as he will you?

So you’re ok just being an accessory to someone else’s life? You will never be a priority to him, never be put first. Yes, it could be so fun, but if you start to invest emotionally in this person, it can suck the substance from your very being. Can you keep him on the mere fringe of your life, as he will you? You…

It seems like you’re not getting the advice you want, but you’re being told what you NEED to hear.

It just sounds like you’re in way over your head. You’re asking for tips on how to make the balance power favor you, but that makes me scared for you because with this guy I'm not sure that's possible. You sound like a young woman with a lot going for her. You’re smart, accomplished, and attractive. There are plenty…

You are asking for advice, but it seems like you mostly want us all to tell you to go for it and that it will be fantastic. Your entire post is so littered with red flags though that it is really, really impossible for me to tell you to sleep with this married, manipulative narcissist who is playing mind games with…