Is it wrong for allosexuals (especially straights) to use the term asexual as a way to mock people they find unattractive and/or irritating? I’ve been wondering lately if that smacks of sexual gaslighting. Or at least just being an ahole.

Female public figures end up in this trap not just with body positivity, but with feminism and almost any cause they support. Suddenly you have to be little miss everything we need at once or else it’s fuck you, what have you ever done to help anyone besides yourself, why aren’t you performatively championing,…

For you it may be. But women are n0t a monolith- many enjoy the freedom of some bad girl cosplay. And Amber Rose has not always felt that way about sex.

Shocking. Modern hot woman enjoys sex and nudity but still wants to be treated as a human being. 

No, because she’s 30+. The pearl-clutching is usually reserved for when the younger adult is under 30. They’ll swear that it’s 100% about something altruistic- like feminism, concern about emotional maturity, and protecting young adults from manipulation- and 0% about their own insecurities, their viewing sex as some…

I haven’t heard about her sexually assaulting anyone or being transphobic. BTW, she does not identify as a  feminist.

To be fair, she did apologize for that and it was years ago. A lot of people of all races are just over expecting every left-leaning female celebrity to have a spotless, unproblematic past when the same level of perfection isn’t expected of the Prince Harry’s, Eminem’s, etc. of the world. Or of private citizens. 

So basically because she didn’t manage to find a man with an unproblematic past and unproblematic family to marry into. Got it. I’m sure your family tree is full of saints.

The only issue I have with some of the people who are supporting Harry over this is that they’ll be the same ones going on about how it’s ok to call female cultural appropriators and tanners every misogynistic name in the book, excuse violence against them, blame them for sexual assault, and tell them to kill…

Consent. As if he revealed their medical records or worse, assaulted them. Please. Powerful people shouldn’t get to treat those around them like garbage and then be defended by the public with “tHey Didn’t KKKonsent 2 that”when someone exposes them. FAFO.

Meghan is not insufferable, she’s an imperfect but ultimately harmless woman of color in the public eye detailing what she went through. Besides the racists and misogynists, the only people who tend to find her insufferable for talking about what happened to her are people who think they could have handled it better.…

The way the public treated her around the time of the divorce was gross and very Britney 2.0. It was like every angry creepy man, biphobic sex-negative feminist, wannabe Mrs. Hemsworth, and spiritual weirdo who had been surveiling and rating her purity culture score since she was 13 came out of the woodwork. The…

At least we’re finally focusing on the person responsible for this instead of conveniently making it the responsibility of every woman who has ever worked with the company now.

I get where you’re coming from. At the same time, if this were some female former child star known for rebelling against conservative values or a daughter of some “star” we don’t like, people on both sides would be gleefully falling all over themselves to weaponize it and bragging about how right they were to go on…

If that does happen, people will fall all over themselves to blame the ex-wife he emotionally abuses for his suicide. It will probably become an Amber Heard situation in the media.

Yeah, it can be exhausting. Thank you for speaking up for sl*t-shamed and victim-blamed women. This is one of the main reasons there may be a need for a movement separate from feminism altogether, that focuses on the harm both sides do to women and girls to uphold their own version of victim-blaming purity culture.…

He was problematic from the start, (and a lot of women try to make peace with the fact that completely unproblematic men are hard to come by when it comes to things like misogyny, body-shaming, and ableist language) but not to the extent that he is now. He’s dangerous. He clearly wasn’t an easy man to challenge or…

Welp, it didn’t take long for the focus to shift to women who have worked with this brand in the past. I wonder how long it will take for rightwing trolls to make this about same sex couples, pronouns, and the necklines of today?

I guess everyone’s forgetting something important about Celeste’s post. She made that comment and parody around the same time Emily Ratajowski revealed one of her sexual assaults. It’s no wonder she blocked her. In a way, both the tone-deaf timing of the post and the general treatment of Emily Ratajowski since…

They’ve taken on a Not Like Other Girls feel. She made that snide little post about Emily Ratajowski around the same time she revealed a sexual assault, which is probably why Emily blocked her and definitely why her post was controversial at the time.