It’s complicated, but passion and sex are two completely different things, and I guarantee having more sex isn’t going to solve this problem of his feeling he ‘lacks passion,’ Having been around the block a few times before, it sound to me like this relationship is winding down, and he is beign pretty honest with you…

Much gratitude Sqarr!! Thanks so much for the bump!!!!! :)

Thank You!!!!

Fellow Jezzies and GT’ers! PLEASE put me in the black!

Here’s the link to him telling his story:

Widely reported Nicole Arbor abused Matthew Santoro when they were dating. GradeAUnderA and other Youtubers have corroborated her abusiveness. No one ever talks about when a woman is abusive to a man in a relationship because it is far more common the other way around, but it does happen.

I need help y’all. I am not one that asks for hep too much, but this one is a doozy. If you can’t give, that’s cool, but if you can pass it along on social media that help a lot too. It’s me, so promise its legit.

That is all it takes. i put my foot out doing a similar turn—how many times have turned like that? And walking was so painful for weeks and it just did not get better until I saw a specialist.. Best thing to do is not wait it out but go see a specialist about it (pretty sure knees are an orthopedic doctor issue)—they…

I woudl keep distance from your boss. No more rides home from the boss-man. Keep it professional (I know you said he’s a friend but friends don’t ask weird intimate uncomfortable questions out of the blue about your significant other). Also, boss crushes are very normal feeling to have, the best way to get over it is…

Lindy!!!!!!!!!!!!! So fierce! Love it, miss your posts here on Jez so much, but thrilled for your successes!

I was bullied in school. As a girl, it wasn’t the ‘stealing my toys and then punching me in the face’ variety. It was: no other girl would be my friend nor talk to me for fear of being seen as a friend. No parties to go to, no one inviting me to dances. When guys saw me walking in the hallway they’d point and say:…

yup same here. i initiate contact—we chat on the phone, but i see my girlfriends who have boyfriends maybe once every 5 months or so? and it really sucks, because having girl time is important. plus when i get in romantic relationships i find it more important than ever to maintain connections with my female friends.…

No, but it does make you sleepy, but not foggy. But your body adjusts to that really quickly, and within a week it wont make you sleepy anymore, and also you can start by cutting the pills in half and working your way up in dosage pretty fast.

Yeah, don’t waste that rental fee. I just remember I had to change the water a lot because it got so dirty so quick. But other than that, it worked for me (I am not one for following directions tho).

If you want long-term and monogamous rather than casual hookup, then stick to your guns. There are men out there who want the same thing—but you got to stick to your guns about it, because there are lots of men and women who aremore of casual sex folks. That’s fine for them, but it isn;t for you, and that is fine.…

Go to the doctor/ and or psychiatrist pronto and get honest and ask or a bottle of Klonopin. Unlike long-term drugs—it is meant for short term use and does not take months like some other meds do to start working. One pill twice a day hits your system in 15 minute and makes all the difference for functioning under…

I have rug doctored without vacuuming. Basically, you just do the whole area twice instead of once, and change out the dirty water more often. But it worked—and on a 10-year-old never-vacuumed white rug no less (was moving out—landlord had never seen a rug so clean). Oh, and fuck Dyson.

“Depressed people aren’t a waste; suicide isn’t a wasted life. It’s a fucking tragedy.”

“My brother has schizophrenia. His life has value.”

I’m so sorry, Cry, Cry until your nose is red and eyes are red and snot is all over the pillow. Just cry it out, and be kind to yourself. Writing a eulogy sounds like a very sweet tribute—you can read it aloud then maybe tuck it away behind a picture frame of a small picture of our cat or near her favorite spot to sun…