Wow. I would storm their room and tell them both they are selfish inconsiderate assholes for not acting like fucking adults and realizing that their bickering is ruining Christmas for all of you, and moreover that they should get back together because they are both rotten-hearted and clearly only deserve each other.…

I had surgery for a herniated disk (way beyond bulging)—and I am in my mid-thirties. BEST decision I ever made. The difference in pain level and ability to move was immediate and dramatic. The anticipation of the surgery is much worse than the surgery itself, which was a breeze. The pain after surgery was really…

YES, EXACTLY the point of my first response. Dude you were with totally stepped over a line because he did not communicate his need before-hand. Which is why I think it is a bit of a red flag, his inability to communicate his desires and needs ahead of time. If someone pulled that on me, I’d probably tell him to stop…

LOL, you don’t have much experience with the kinky community. Lots of folks would accommodate such a request and not bat a single eyelash (though they may crack a smile). Nothing new under the sun. Communication is key.

I am in a BDSM/Kink relationship, one that involved saying some pretty nasty thinks in play to get each other off (I like it as much as my partner does). But trust me, we talked about it openly and at length before we hit the hay together. The fact he kind of sprang it at you during the act is super selfish, immature…

I had really back acne all the way into my thirties, I hoped for all of my 20s it would just go away. It didn’t. Over the counter stuff and home remedies just dis not work and only made my skin really dry with acne.

Bullet dodged. He sounds like a douche-canoe.

DO you charge him rent? Because you really should. Like, write up a rental agreement. If he eats the food you buy, you charge him for it. If he sleeps in a room, you charge him rent for the room. If he borrows your computer, charge an hourly rate. If he does not pay, he does not get to use, eat or live there. It does…

Seconding ASOS.com. They have a petite line (I Love their tall line). Always have sales, and even the stuff not on sale is really reasonable. Tons and tons of pretty dresses. Pretty fast shipping too.

That sucks. Since they are in bed, can you take yourself out to the movies? Or maybe go out tomorrow alone for a couple hours to do your own thing and decompress?

For Christmas eve and/or Christmas day: take yourself to the movies. Try to avoid Christmas-themed ones. Movie marathons at home work too. Also try to get a small project you can work on—whether it is knitting, a paint-by numbers project, or a puzzle. Something that keep your hands busy and gives a sense of…

“The tongue matches the sweater...”

It is a matter of perspective. There is no ‘up’ and ‘down’ as the Earth is a sphere, but because we have to show an image of it, and more importantly, because the Mercator Projection and other well-used maps of the world were made by cartographers in the Northern Hemisphere, we use North as ‘up’ as a visual…

“Let’s please support survivors without shaming those who participate in BDSM.”

“Between the tourists, the poseurs, and the psychos, it was all just too fucked up.”

“From what I understand, there are predatory men who stalk women in the BDSM community because it’s remarkably easy for them to abuse women there and get away with it scot free.”

“You’ve got to practice your attitude...”

LOL. I have 10 bras from VS, a couple of cute slips and a teddy. They fit perfect, my BF loves me in them. I regret nothing.

“I was getting nervous, sweating and blushing and had to excuse myself from the store.”

Exactly. I love going into Victoria’s Secret with the boyfriend. It was a total treat for both of us.