So this is a genuine - not trolling - But, you are absolutely right that we’ve never been anything but cognizant of races in modern society. But, part of the consequences and impact (positive or negative,) of race is from how others and society as a whole treat us. If she was seen by the public at large as a black…

But what if, years later, you still saw the behavior as flattering and ultimately harmless?

He named his famous group of guy friends the Pussy Posse. I automatically hate anyone who is/was in a group called the pussy posse. It is a rule I stand firm on.