I have never listened to Blurred Lines and avoided watching the video because ewwwww...
This is wonderful!

The misogyny in porn is meant to diminish the sexual shame that if felt by the viewer. It can have arresting effect on emotional development not necessarily because two people are having sex on screen but because of the dialogue is awful, the premises are awful, the packaging is awful, the titles are awful. The sex…

Hey I am 73/100 interesting and quirky too... Methinks this is rigged now :)

My advice to you is to cut your losses asap. If telling the new wife is going to prolong the agony, maybe don't. Also, otherwise married, engaged men trolling young women 18-24 for attention is SUPER common. They need a high school class to tell women how to spot them!

Well... we are going to see more and more men left behind as the woman they are sold as soon as they hit puberty doesn't really exist. Also, now marketers are banking on intra-couple competition, spousal spats and all that to get eyeballs (in TV as well). And divorce is a booming business (in the sense that people…

That is a great idea :) Congrats!

Dating sites are full of guys who will never get off the site, they treat it as a catalogue and copy n paste messages to ALL women without reading the profiles. It's sort of an addiction and i've seen it cause depression. Spending all your time on a dating site is a good example of doing the same thing to expect a…

Dating sites are pretty much useless for most guys. First of all, there are like 75 guys for every 25 women. 1 out of 4 women may reply to an overture and most will be sex workers. That is why a lot of guy profiles read like anxiogenic puss. That is because people who count on dating sites rely too much on…

I've indulged in the extra long profile and got exactly what I want. I even toyed with the possibility of making a super complicated interactive questionnaire application just to weed out anybody who wasn't autistic or nerdy :P If you can create a profile that irks the people you're not interested in before they even…

'I just think long term exposure to that family is a health risk'. This.

Actually the records are pretty impressive but the stories are under-told. But DNA ancestry will bridge the gap. As a stolen baby myself I am very excited about testing and finding out about my heritage.

Just to annoy you even more. The word African... vague... very vague... It gets more obvious after you've known more than 5 or 6 people who call that continent home... Like Africa is so big it has its own countries :)

I totally understand what you say. Race doesn't make people different but we still conflate race and culture because globalization is still a relatively new thing. I've been exercising my cultural curiosity for 30 years with pen pals then the precursor phone networks and still learning. When I moved into a very…

You see African-Canadian makes total sense because the a lot of black Canadians are from Africa... At least where I come from all my friends were from Africa growing up. Now it's diversifying with a lot of people who are from the Carribean. Yes, if distinction needs to be made, we just say black or simply Canadian!…

Having been stalked a few times using illegal methods I would say that the cyberstalking you describe isn't exactly that. Stalking implies trying to see what wants to be kept secret. I would prefer the word stalking to be associated with illegal behavior not the simple act of reading what is posted publicly.

I seperate aspirational crap in two categories. Made for profit entertainment which features constructed lifestyle and retelling of one's life to share with others. TV shows feature people living in apartments a normal person with the same job couldn't afford... same for the clothing and a lot of oth aspect of their…

Even though I can go through a 'Russian exorcism' to get rid of the leg and back pain that I get from wearing heels once in a while, I decided to stop and throw away all my heels. I still have my favorite pair of fuck me boots but sincerely the point of those is not to touch the ground anyway.

There are plenty of venues where you find lifestyle content that is offensive and also fake like in realty TV shows for instance. Why do people hate on regular folks who talk about their enjoyable lifestyle? I am trying to figure this out because I get that 'you think you are so great with your... Insert whatever…

I am a planner and an executer, talking about feminism is boring. Talking about specific instances of sexism, inequality and other issues is more interesting. Feminism is used in a reductionist way. We women are way more complex than the terms that are co-opted by sexists to describe us like feminist, slut, bitch,…

OMG you guys are amazing, I am going with 'Cock and Hookah Party!' (It will be the theme of the evening next time I do my cock bondage class!!)