I agree with you Asmodaari. When I advise women on the importance of sex ed as an adult, of course I run into the same situation. Culturally, it seems that men and women are pushed into two completely different worlds and it's a challenge. Being well matched in relationship is a great thing but since women tend to…

Women being able to get pregnant is the only thing that remains as an explanation why they should be somewhat choosy of their mate. In nature, males have to display their wares to the ladies who choose amongst them.

Oh and in the catalog of social vandalism, this project is awesome. I used to write fake 'missed connections' stories in various US Craigslist regions and I was surprised at how many replies I got. That made me feel like a fraudster rather than an artist so I stopped LOL

I've never counted getting stupid openers from fucktards on OKCupid as 'harassment'. If you can say 'no thank you' and block them if they write another line than it's manageable. If I worked at OKC my project would be the fucktard badge. SQL Statement: Users who initiate chat more than 1 per minute, get high % of…

The fact that a young woman's entourage is failing her because of their prejudices is the biggest problem I see here.

It is completely unhelpful have envy of others over the quantity of sex people seem to be having especially gender-wise. Where I come from (Montreal) men and women enjoy a certain amount of equality because our marriage rate is very low and people lean quite agnostic. The reason people go out mingle and fuck? To go…

So you happily ran into a 1/20-er and you tell me (the older woman who coaches young guys on sex matters) that my rules are bullshit. That is fine, I hope you run into a lot of them :) BTW, the thank you notes are cute but really not necessary.

Maybe I do not understand your comment about men having to do shit while women are assumed to be worthy of sex. The world of hetero sex is a bit lopsided though because I agree that women get sexual attention from men at a higher rate than men getting sexual attention from women. It seems obvious that both men and…

I do teach sex 2.0 classes but the negative feedback is just as useful as the positive ones. Thanks.

I said it is time-consuming.

I was referring to a ratio. I certainly love my principal partner and my lovers also but for someone who is non-monogamous like myself, developing a way to identify wonderful partners to invest in for the long run has become a science. I can't take time away from my existing partner to pro-actively spend awful time…

I do not think I can 'prove the stereotype that a small percent of men are having sex with a majority of women'... Actually I do not think that a majority of women are having sex LOL What I have noticed is that people assume others are having sex way more than themselves which is an interesting courant. I would like…

My list contained tips for women which included take adult sex classes and figure out what you want (This is a rather broad subject.) Have you noticed that every other commercial is about how a woman must change something about herself physically before aspiring to win a man's heart? I educate people who are 18-24 and…

If it doesn't apply to you then it doesn't apply to you. I read LGBT stuff all day long because most of my galpals are lesbian/queer and certainly do not mind their homonormativeness :) The 1/20 isn't a fact or science but it's something I realized and wondered about for a decade before I read the same comment by two…

We so rarely see people doing sex right in TV/movies. I'm always wondering if it is because people who write TV/movies don't know what good sex is or if it is just a shame thing and sex needs to be used as a negative plot device else it's too porno...

SeaAnemone, In Black Mirror's episode from this week 'Be Right Back' (Ch4 UK) the main protagonist is a woman. In fact she is the one who drives the car, buys the stuff, earns the money and her boyfriend is largely ornamental (figuratively until he becomes literally ornamental!) It is never specifically explained why…

This?

That's just immature bullshit from people who do not know yet, who they are. There are many more dishonest things that kids under 25 do without really realizing it. It can be entertaining or just TMI. And when I say dishonest I mean the 'lying to yourself' habit.

This.

I have been in love with HR since he appeared on 'Unsolved Mysteries' c. 1989... But I have never heard his music, I am only familiar with him as a writer and spoken word performer. What is interesting though is that he does not edit, parse or hide his intentions when speaking or writing. Personally, I am much more…