Ari, you are not :) I wish I did though, I truly do, then I could enjoy the wine beyond 1 glass because it tastes good :P

Can I ask why? I cannot understand the logic of this.

It's only an obnoxious purchase because a Birkin bag has simply become a statement that says 'Look I (or the person I fuck) can afford a Birkin bag so I win'. It used to be one of the better choices if you were looking to acquire a high quality life long purse but it has lost this cachet. And now they are available in…

True beauty transcends gender. +swoon.

No, I don't drink, not because it makes sex worse but because I don't like it. But you are right that booze does affect rational decision making. Be careful about passing on statistics that using protection is not 100% safe. This is a cop-out that lazy guys push on girls because they are lazy or need to account for…

I did not disagree with your use of the word moron and I do not disagree with your contention that doing this (the sending of emails) is a REALLY bad idea and on it's own it is a valid source of concern for the people involved. But please, sleeping around (cheating a a monogamous agreement) is so frequent amongst…

I think that we disagree on the interpretation of the e-mails as life threatening. I have investigated this sort of stuff (social media forensics and anonymous email threats) in fraud cases and maybe I am way too jaded to interpret the 'make you disappear' as life threatening. I can totally see how Broadwell could…

Word!

<3 (Because there used to be a heart next to comment and now it's gone!)

Sex is free but they get you on the accessories. You put "Spray some on in the morning and feel better about your life choices." and The Ethical Slut in the same list. Make up your mind! It's Hard Work Being a Slut! Try having to explain this (the title of my stand-up show) to a 12 year old daughter so she doesn't…

That and... while we women read gossip mag, we can always be certain some dude is busy screwing us (our friends, family, community) over in some way whether near or far, in an alley, a boardroom or a bank. This gossip crowds out what is urgently worth knowing, reading, following and acting upon.

Paula Bradwell is in the 'Media Gossip Fishbowl' for something 'scandalous' and 'sallacious', possibly the least interesting life experience for a person who is a semi-private individual. What I mean by that is a person who is contractually obligated to appear in public to promote her book but is not, let's say a…

Saying that Broadwell is crazy because she is reacting to a stressful situation (that includes a ton of details we do not know about) in a way that is hard to understand does a disservice to people who have actual psychological pathologies than can be witnessed in every aspects of their lives, in every decision they…

It is just sad to watch a 24 hour media struggle to remain interesting by destroying the quality of life of semi-private individuals by going on and on about their private lives. In the media, women are infantile eye candy OR crazy sluts. This is not a reflection of the wonderfully complex secret world of women who…

We had a corporate suite at the #UFC154 and it was the first time in my life I was surrounded by guys like this for 5 hours! They had GSP white headbands instead of Laker shirts of course. Watching THEM watch UFC was more interesting than some of the fights and I have watched every single fight AND all the TUFs since…

Just Google me and send me a text and we will do brunch chicka_boom!

Well, I do not do cock torture (CBT) because it is just too easy (and also dangerous) so I also do mental CBT because the funny thing about men is that you can simply describe the procedure and they are very good at imagining it in their head and cringing in a good or bad way. Plus, no tools, appropriate place or…

Oh look, a man got you to look at his penis and you fell for it!

+1000. Kiva.org is also a great engagement gift. You can lend thousands of dollars and STILL go on honeymoon when the money returns (or lend it back and transfer to the kids eventually)

In my practice, I see (and it is probably not universal but it is telling) that men and women do not have the same personal definition of monogamy and being faithful. Sometimes, this leads to issues and fights before the actual stepping out. Also, men do not leave women as much as women leave men so there is a lot of…