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erinbenzakein

Nothing about the wedding as it is described in the article is feminist. She gets an engagement ring, she wears a white dress, her father “gives her away,” they have a standard bridal party.
The article addresses her keeping her own name but doesn’t venture into the idea of him taking hers, or both of them hyphenating.

I thought it was meant to be that way. As in "She can't even," but for her it's real. She really couldn't.