What is a “Lighteater”?

to add to pumpkinspiceland’s explanation: “the force” is a star wars reference, “Harry” is from Harry Potter (obvious), Patrick Stewart is one of the most iconic Star Trek captains (from TNG), and Gandalf is from LOTR. All nerd materials, but mish-mashed and guaranteed to make fanboys and fangirls pull their hair out…

Yeah, except it looks to me that you guys want to make judgments about people with sexual kinks but refuse to listen when the people you’re judging say anything about it.

how do we critique the patriarchy without critiquing the women shaped by and operating within it— and I think it’s dificult to find the balance.

I get where you’re coming from. I’m a woc with a culture that sometimes get appropriated as well, but even I’m a little afraid of asking a question here, sometimes, because. yeah.

Just FYI, i think there’s a typo re: Toni / Tori Lux.

In case I haven’t said it, thank you for your posts and the articulate, patient way you conveyed them. I have learned a lot.

Whether you mean to or not, what you’re doing here is pathologizing a common and usually benign fantasy, and in doing so you are telling everyone who has this fantasy that there’s something wrong with them, that they need to seek treatment for what is a perfectly benign aspect of their sexual life

fwiw, i think you were patient and i’ve learned a lot from your answers. she was out of line and continued with her douchebaggery when she should have backed down. (and not just to you). I honestly believe this person has no compassion.

I’m sorry that happened to you and I wish you the best in your healing.

Yes this. It’s basically Your Kink Is Not My Kink But It’s OK (an actual term coined by fan culture). I find rape simulation frightening and triggering. I can’t even listen to R-rated movies in which someone is getting raped, men or women. And it’s OK.

I’m sorry that happened to you. I am not judging you for whatever turns you on, or however you work through your trauma. I don’t judge kinks as long as they remain consensual.

Ayup. I’m a big believer of Your Kink Is Not My Kink But That’s OK. If I don’t wanna get judged for my kinks, I shouldn’t judge other people’s :/

i was just gonna say. He has an actual fedora in his dp!

THIS IS POSSIBLY MY FAVORITE POST IN JEZ

Due to my inability to make good decisions during my college years, I procrastinated until the night before the deadline of my Media and Society class final paper. So I read many many many bad reviews about Twilight and wrote a 20-page paper on why Twilight is problematic to the representation of women and good…

Can I just say I love your kinja name.

this is also what I did when I started realizing what sleep paralysis was (around high school). I was a sickly kid and I started noticing that I would experience them if I either a) exceptionally tired (which is quite common because I was anemic), or b) slept within 2 hours of eating.

holy crap.

this entire thread. !!!