I think sometimes you just get lucky for long periods of time. I had some really bad run ins with cat callers for several years and now in the last three (in the same city, pretty much look and dress the same), I’ve barely heard anything. but I know from others that its still happening to them so it’s not like the cat…

I posted about this elsewhere so I feel like I’m harping on it despite not being a Hammer stan (promise) but I agree. If he was an example, I’d get it more. but I think her point got lost because she focused so intensely on the example and it just came off as a hit piece unless you knew what to look for or really…

Buzzfeed’s Armie Hammer piece was kind of bitchy given that it was trying to praise him at the same time. I ended up skimming because it was exhausting but it basically said he was a good guy, good actor, and charmingly good looking but they couldn’t understand why everyone involved in his career hadn’t given up on…

How the fuck do you not remember anything about losing your virginity or whether you went to prom? I get forgetting a few details, but nothing?

If I remember correctly from reading Funny in Farsi (memoir by an Iranian girl, super good, highly recommend), the author, Firoozah, asks her dad about this because he eats pork and everyone is horrified but he loves it and he tells her that Muhammed told people not to eat pork because pigs had diseases that would…

right? Like this should be dangerous to their “cause” because it proves that their is actually journalistic integrity in the world but won’t accept repeated failures at this ‘sting’ as evidence of it.

I would cry

I was really upset last night because I let a troll suck me in on twitter and make me feel like shit for making a point similar to this. I think Lena Dunham’s statement was disgusting. There is a natural reaction to support loved ones. My dad’s childhood best friend is in prison for attempted murder and various…

but the juiciest part is that Clinton [allegedly] had no idea they were apparently feuding.

Update: I have now soberly told a friend about it and we talked a little and I’m feeling a lot better though the world is still shit and I’m depressed af.

I’m talking with a friend about this right now and it’s like I have two friends (that I know of) where none of us want to call what happened to us assault, but can clearly see what happened to each other is wrong/assault. Or I was halfway through a women’s studies class when one girl shared an experience she had at a…

Hahah, I just unsubscribed from a lot of emails so that’s what made me think of it.

Starting when I was 14, I had a boss who would touch just a little too much or make weird comments but it wasn’t overt and I didn’t learn until I was older how fucked it was. But IMO, I’d recommend if you can like spreading the word that you’re not a touchy person (dodge a hug, fake laugh it off) just to everyone and…

Ugh he’s always seemed like a creep and I was a teen watching gossip girl so I shouldn’t be surprised but I also loved watching gossip girl and this sucks butt. So sorry she has to go through this. Why can’t people just be better?

I hate the word so I actually don’t use it outside of this type of circumstance. But, it’s e) a possibility of any of the above. Also, it’s not like the n-word exactly (less intense IMO) but it is like my gay friends who call themselves f*gs sometimes. I don’t like it, would never use it, but I respect their…

Like, if they don’t actually think the words “what a fucking cunt” they are okay.

Honestly the worst part of most of these stories is when the man is the first to tell the story. Not just responding to allegations, but that he has no fucking clue that he did anything wrong. It’s terrifying.

I’ve seen like one episode of SATC and part of the movie and as much as I love Kim Cattrall, I would watch the fuck out of an SATC movie with Bridget Everett as Samantha.

We’re redoing my kitchen (parents’ house) and I technically don’t live at home anymore, but I am pushing intensely for specific design elements. I visit a lot, am not far away, and am an only child who has made clear to my parents that when they die/move out, I want the damn house (Been in my family since it was built…

Right???