I’m reflecting on how lazy and comfortable I’ve been, hating myself for it, and figuring out how to locally do some good. Immigrant advocacy seems like a good place to start for me, but really so many causes are potentially screwed right now so pick your passion and go for it.

As I’m comforting my Muslim spouse as she sobs about what this means for her, I don’t have time for nausea. I just want her to be okay. I want to live in a place where an interfaith lesbian couple with disabilities aren’t seen as the enemy. I’m tired of our lives hanging in the balance every goddamn election because…

Every feminist commenter on every feminist website I used to read back then said over and over and over that attacking Sarah Palin in a sexist manner was just plain wrong. It was mostlt liberal dudes and decidely NON-feminist women engaging in that crap.

That drove me crazy. I think I spent an entire election season yelling some variation of “this is quite possibly the dumbest person on the planet, she says some new mind-shatteringly stupid thing every six seconds, why the hell are we just tossing lazy sexist insults at her” at most of my friends. What the hell does…

UGH THIS. COOKING IS FOR WOMEN. COOKING PROFESSIONALLY IS NO PLACE FOR WOMEN.