On one of our first dates, my BF spent most of it chatting with an obviously lonely single man at the next table. The man was disabled and was very happy to be out for a meal. It was a green flag for me because it showed that even though my BF wanted to be with me, he realized that this guy wanted to chat and he…

Sure, I think that’s a good green/red flag to look out for. But, I also think it is important to see how they treat you/other people that are important in their life.

I still think the best green flag is how they treat service sector workers. Being snippy at a waiter speaks volumes. At least to me.