I come from the world where women can be held accountable just like a man without anyone being labeled sexist for it. I come from a world where your gender is does not decide your guilt or innocence, but your actions. What world are you coming from? Why would you assume she is not guilty when the entire story came…

So a guy making you feel like you owe him sex for being your friend makes him a asshole? No I don't think so. I think the problem are women who don't like the trouble of dealing with men they don't want sexually but enjoy the company of being sexually interested in them. They can't deal with men as whole human and…

"One of the most interesting things I learned reading Jezebel is that, for a lot of women, when a dude doesn't listen to them in one area they start to wonder when else he won't listen. Like, you know, when she says "Stop, I don't want to have sex" for instance?"

It says you support a few trendy and popular causes so you can call yourself a good person without ever having to do the hard work of actually being equality minded or fully self aware. It's all too common. I hear so many people claiming support equality while saying things which are plainly bigoted so long as they…

Then don't find out how they feel and go about your business and let the chips fall where they may. Ignore all signs and patterns because so long as you aren't attracted to them y0u don't have to think about it.

Of course there is friendship in courtship. What freakish digital world are you living in? Our emotions don't operate by the cold machine logic you laid out. You can't create a definitive boundary between friendship, and love anymore than you can between joy and happiness.

I read a good times article on the subject and it said we won't be at a demographic tipping point until 2050 when we will have more people over 65 than under the age of 15. We don't have to do anything right now but we do need to do something before we hit the tipping point because it's very hard to make up lost…

Your sense of entitlement is out of control. The nation is not your daddy and it does not have to buy you off so that you insure the welfare of the country which gave you the privilege of living in the top 10% of humanity when it comes to quality of life and resources. Your perspective is like that of a spoiled…

White folk fearing black people is nothing new and it does not come as a surprise whether they say it or not. When I was a kid I remember white people locking their car doors when I walked by on the street. Thankfully kind of stuff is a thing of the past, since the media driven hysteria surrounding car jacking came to…

I am saying that his wanting a women who does what he wants is not make him a sexist. He has all the traits of a classic narcissists and what he was really busy doing was dissing the women the women in front of him because he cared little for her. Attractive men and women who become conceded and detached from the…

I think you might want to consult a much older women for advice, perhaps a women in her 60's or even 70's. They know how to manage these things even if our generation does not. I think we missed a inter-generational transfer of wisdom by choosing to re-imagine our world before first learning what world we were in.

What is this a nice guy test? Buy ya'll don't like nice guys. They are disingenuous assholes right? So screw women is fine by me. Screw Screw Screw till the cow comes home, as many as you like and don't waste time with friendships because you might find yourself being nice to girl you like.

Yeah I would say it was unless you think it was he who seduced her. I'm pretty sure it was she who was crushing on him since it was she who was trying to chase off the rivals, and since it was her threatening emails that exposed the whole thing then she is doubly at fault.

There is a difference between knowing it and making the needed sacrifices to do it. If we are too busy entertaining ourselves to reproduce then we won't bother. The culture of sacrificing for others makes forming a family more tolerable than one focused on doing what pleases yourself above all else.

I would like for the women who wrote this article to relax instead of writing long pieces trashing guys for being kind, nice, sensitive, and a host of other qualities we associate we would like to see in future fathers.

"But I'll reiterate just for you: "Nice Guys" (and "Nice Girls") is an intentional misnomer. In reality, they aren't really nice at all, but rather disingenuous assholes who feign decency and kindness out of pure selfishness. "

Yeah that was a nice guy and he really liked a girl but he was too shy to say it. He did not want to scare her off by being forward. You know what the girl needs to do? GROW THE HELL UP!

What would you describe as a traditional route? I am thinking that we can embrace their masculinity and treat them with respect for it. If they see themselves as stoic then treat them as such. Don't tell them they are weak or vulnerable. Perhaps recommend a course of treatment that validates their sense of strength…

You have no idea how these men see women and you really need to stop pretending you do. When a guy really likes a girl, and I mean likes her enough to hang around her just because he likes her then the only thing blinding him will be his affection for her. His sexual interest are already taking a back seat because if…

Well said. The wanna be cool kids need a lesson in decency.