I'm not drawing broad conclusions. I'm just saying that there are people who think this way.

You know, you joke about this but I have three male friends who are vegetarian and all three of them complain that as soon as they tell a woman they are vegetarian they are asked if they are gay.

Joke that has made its way around our expat community:

Going to visit a Welsh girl's family is truly an act of bravery and love.

Yeah. I suspect you are right. Women I've known from London and Cambridge tend to be on the same level of submissiveness to their partners as American women I've known.

Oh, yeah. I tried to make it clear I was talking about my friends and not women in general. My white female friends tend to be middle to upper middle class and tend to be considerably more submissive to their partners than my black, Hispanic and Eastern female friends (who also tend to come from a middle to upper…

Some of the strongest women I've ever met have been black or Hispanic. And, Jesus Christ, one of my best friends from back when I used to live in America married a Pakistani woman and she fucking owns his ass.

Travolta should really have just stuck to discreet high end rent boys.

Interesting is one word for it. Her husband is so fucking weird. His entire sexual trip was to ask her to tell him she was cheating on him nearly every time they banged. So she just told him the truth and he assumed she was just role playing. Why you would assume that about your wife when you know she was a swinger…

Oh and the Baby Daddy drama that She Said was alluding to was that two years ago she was sleeping with one of the bodyguards at her place of work and her bodyguard was a very dark skinned Arab man and her husband is of a nationality that favors blonde hair and blue eyes and when she got pregnant there was about nine…

The general story is that a friend of mine and her husband were poly/swingers when they were dating. Then after they got married he announced that he was going to continue to date other women but didn't want her dating other men. She was like "Whatever, dude" and kept seeing other guys and created a blog call "The…

Thank you!

Exactly.

In the same way that Rome Girl is thankful that even in Crazy She's Just Had A Fling Lust I'm really good at pulling out.

Oh, yes. She just posted a picture of Z wearing a misfits skull shirt on her facebook the other day so I don't think that would bother her at all.

Anyway, your husband's impulse is I suspect biological. It's true of every guy I know. And, while Rome Girl and I have an open relationship so she doesn't actually "cheat" on me, when she has a fling my libido for her goes up 1,000 percent.

Well I'll keep that in mind. There's a fairly good chance I'll be seeing her next month. If so I'll send you my postal address. If not I'll be seeing her in October (she doesn't want to see anyone in July or August when she'll "look like a whale" in her words.)

I think that would just remind him that her blog exists and not be a great idea.

The closest I got was after he said to her "I'm happy with you seeing other people but am worried Bart might be a psychopath" was Facebook message him "You're the one that punched her in the face, not me."

It was an awful time for everyone involved.