My parents were very up front about being responsible with alcohol and the potential hazards of drinking too much. Also, for what it's worth, I was very much a "good kid." But I STILL made plenty of decisions I could look back on and shake my head over — got myself in situations where yeah, bad things could have…

Remember the part where she implied that the punishment the boy's got wasn't fair? And that the girl was "lucky"?

I agree with you, but it's not appropriate to question her choices in this context. What's appropriate is slamming the boys' choice to rape her.

Don't forget the "was she a virgin" comment. :/ I had no idea Serena was waiting til marriage to have sex! Somebody needs to tell her that virginity doesn't prevent rape.