Sounds like a Get Out style event. I do not like.

Ditto. And then I’m all.. you know, even IF I had done well in school like family and teachers and folk told me and even IF I read everything, studied abroad, sat on think tanks now, was a published author with acclaim, and even IF I was a much better version of me... I’d STILL not say what he says, how he says it,…

An underplayed aspect of Obama’s campaign and Presidency was how fucking *good* he had to be to be the first African Americans President.

If you imagine an America where only black people were allowed to vote and an America where only white people voted, I think it’s pretty clear which one of those two Americas would be better governed, more successful and more respected in the world. White people know this at least subconsciously - and loathe it,…

I guess I don’t get how you can play the “we’re doing real journalism” card when the NY Times busted the story wide-open with 5 sources in what, a few weeks since the Weinstein stuff broke? And you’ve supposedly had it for years?

WOW. She speaks like someone who has NO FUCKING IDEA about what the re-entry population faces. The answer to reduced recidivism rates isn’t hiring the formerly incarcerated. It is a multi-faceted approach that includes prevention, diversion AND re-entry. You don’t just automatically hire a population that has spent…

Just like when white people use drugs there’s an “opioid epidemic”

What I read in your comments is that sense of entitlement/ privilege that cis hetero men feel they have. That makes me upset but I’m trying not to flame you.

This woman was at work. A women out in a social setting probably has different expectations for her interactions with men so flirting may not be unwelcome.

As a guy, it seems to me like there’s a VAST expanse between “never make an advance” and “grab her body” for alternate methods of signalling attraction.

Wow... Just wow.

He’s too eager to compromise on issues like Women’s body autonomy/right to make own medical decisions, and wants to court the racist vote, or “win those blue collar workers back” ignoring that POC largely work Blue Collar or service industry jobs, also pay rent or morgages and would benefit from support as well.

I’m with you. Even if it means “handsome” what the fuck is a “handsome daydream”?

Armisen was a guest on WTF w/Marc Maron back in 2015. I highly recommend giving it a listen. Fred delved into his intimacy issues with women, and IIRC sex addiction. Marc didn’t let up. He didn’t give Fred an easy pass with softball questions. And quite honestly, I was shocked with how open and receptive Armisen was…

He’s been accused(by me) of not really deserving the Oscar for The Revenant, but actually deserved it for What’s eating Gilbert Grape all those years ago. And also not marrying Kate Winslet when when he had the chance, cause their love for each other is undeniable.

“So de white man throw down de load and tell de nigger man tuh pick it up. He pick it up because he have to, but he don’t tote it. He hand it to his womenfolks. De nigger woman is de mule uh de world so fur as Ah can see.”-Their Eyes Were Watching God.

There’s no reset once they start naming they kids whole states

Two of my closest girlfriends are from high school, and I love that we’ve been able to maintain our friendship for the last 20 years. Just because some people can keep evolving friendships with the same people for more than a decade doesn’t mean they don’t have or don’t meet other friends in their adult years.

I’ve quickly learned (from Captain Awkward: go there right now if you’ve never been, I have grown so much as a person and a “bitch) that having a “script” of responses takes a lot of the pressure off. Next time potential FIL says something racist, look him in the eye, let the silence become just a bit uncomfortable,…

“I felt bad for my child who had to experience this.”