Look at that picture.

I am glad everyone else sees it as I do. He’s seen me give birth, it is just so WEIRDLY criminally creepy like you said that he would do this behind my back. Such a weird way to have control over me, such a weird way to violate me. And his phone being under the door... he had to have been doing sneaky stuff like this…

This is exactly it. As I told another commenter, there was another incident with him 4 years ago (something totally different), but he gaslit me and I forgave him and was IN THERAPY for these things right now. He knew I was in therapy to save our marriage because of things HE HAD DONE, then this. I just cannot believe…

Just a head’s up that couples counselling is actually not recommended in cases of abuse, as abusers are very clever manipulators and will often turn the therapist against the victim and use them to further abuse them. Especially where gaslighting has occurred, couples counselling is not a good idea.

3 years old, so it’s a long road up ahead in “co-parenting” now.  He seems to be decent enough father aside from abusing his son’s mother like this. I will definitely expect him to take classes. Such a bummer (I just don’t really have words yet) that my son’s dad has a problem like this.

If I am being completely honest here, I have to say that this wasn’t my first HUNCH something was OFF. About 4 years ago, there was a very bad incident. I am able to end it so easily only because I am not, it took nearly 5 years to wake up :( This is just a new level of weird violation. I cannot believe I didn’t wake…

I don’t think you are overthinking things. He pushes your boundaries in small ways now, but if you keep seeing him, it sounds to me like he’ll keep pushing until you haven’t realized how far he’s changed your relationship to suit him instead of you. He probably doesn’t even realize he’s doing it. He thinks he’s being…

I had a rough month. I am now 16 weeks pregnant and have been dealing with massive work stress and my husband had a surgery that has a long recovery period. I have to do everything around the house in addition to caring for him and maintaining a high level of responsibility at work. I spent the majority of the last…

I have already joined up, and will keep the Brit in line with my brash American ways

tegan! she turned 5 on Dec 3rd

I am getting a divorce. What hurts most is having a child with him. He is man to be setting example for a young boy. This is devastating.

Mimi and Orion say that is some very good floof.

Oh no, I just Googled question & found forums with people asking “I found my boyfriend spying on me in bathroom through hole in wall, what should I do?” Just related type questions to see what the opinions were already out there on this.

Oh HELL no. At first I was like “hey, it’s obvious the guy really likes you- how sweet!” but once you said Tump supporter......

You are very brave to decide that there are other ways your life could be and to take steps to get there. The best advice I can give you (I’m 30, disabled, with mental health problems, and certainly know what it is to feel that your life has stalled) is to be kind to yourself. You will have days where you make real…

I suck at supportive statements in this format, but I’ve been thinking about you, friend. I hope this all works out, and I’m always available if you need a shoulder.

It was the worst! It got to the point where I was so nervous that I was going to “get in trouble” on a daily basis that I had a tight chest and stomach ache every day. I’m so relieved that it’s over.

Evening all.

Today is the 10 year anniversary of my intended death. I acknowledged my family’s pain but had nothing left to give so I swallowed a bottle of sleeping pills and had flashes of being tucked into a gurney (it felt so tight and safe) pulling tubes out of my arm and nurses yelling, and then waking up in a mental…

No booze for moi tonight (I’m crying inside), just club soda, because of pain medicine. From the boob job I had this week, on my birthday, as a birthday gift to myself! Yay! I’m finally reclaiming my birthday. I sort of stopped celebrating it a while back for a number of reasons, including giving myself the option to…