Here’s why I believe in respecting pronouns regardless of who the person is, even if they’re utterly reprehensible: Because the alternative is purposefully misgendering when we can rationalize that certain people “don’t deserve” to have their pronouns respected. It’s essentially a punishment. (One that only applies to…

That’s a long-winded way of saying “male bisexuality isn’t real.” Have you considered the extent to which sexism is informing your analysis? This in particular is ridiculous:

This is a hot take I can back.

I don’t think anyone here is claiming to be paragons of morality, but it is like, so easy to not draw swastikas and then take pictures of them.

Why don’t you delve way the fuck in and search for the Facebook post where they say minors who are victims of sexual assault are sexual beings themselves and can’t be completely exonerated. Probably can’t find the exact post, because they deleted it, but they posted a response after the backlash. It was probably about…

OK, still thinking about this and had to say one more thing. You don’t get to decide how people “should” feel about this, or anything else for that matter. Many members of my family died in the Holocaust. Don’t you dare fucking tell me I “should” be cool with some douchebro blithely smiling next to a swastika.

That was way back in 2011 before being woke and queer was cool, come on. We all drew swastikas on things back then.

I find it disturbing that people seem to care more about pronoun preference and whether queer is a slur, than the fact that this person SEXUALLY ASSAULTED SOMEONE.

This is a transmisogynous talking point used by TWEFs (think TERF but with specific hatred of trans women) who, by the way, run parallel to the Alt-Right’s views on trans women. These views are justified by second wave feminist concepts to disguise this fact. The specific concept of “male socialization” is one that…

Are you fucking kidding me????? A swastika is hate speech, with or without “anti-semetic rhetoric”. GTFO with this shit. And no, I have NEVER doodled a damn swastika. Believe me, my survivor granparents who raised me wouldn’t consider it a “youthful indiscretion”.

Ben had sex with a gay man that I know, so not “straight”

But it was paired with anti-semetic rhetoric. They have tweeted numerous holocaust “jokes,” tweeted and posted on their Facebook about how they are scared of black people. I went to college with Ben and he said some of the most grotesquely racist things there I heard from any of my fellow students. Let’s all quit with…

“Hey, if we raped you, email us k?”

Right?
“It was me as a stupid kid”. No, you had body hair and a beard. You were an adult making light of Nazism.  

i may have done it, but if i did it it’s only because i didn’t KNOW i was doing it! and i didn’t know because of the oppressive society we live in! fuck sexism am i right?

That line totally read as an admission of Ben’s guilt to me. Like, ooops, I may have r*ped you but how am I to know??? write in and tellme if i r*ped you!

Dude, he was like 20 at the time. The cutoff age for that kind of “youthful fuck up” is like, 9 years old.

“you’ve never, not once ever, doodled a swastika”

Seriously, so fucking over people pretending that they were “too young and foolish” to understand what a swastika stands for!

PS Ben is straight and cisgendered and is a motherfucking phony who trivializes queer issues for his own benefit.