@Ari Schwartz: Saying you are clean doesn't negate overall patterns in male behavior (mostly young guys, but you know what I'm saying).

@Ari Schwartz: Well, I think you're discounting nurture on this one. Women are expected to be more thoughtful with money, as the article says. If a woman has a child, not putting them (and therefore the household) first looks VERY selfish in our society. However, if a traditional family, if the man spends on himself,…

God, I would love to own an outfit specific enough that the ombre follows down into two-toned gloves.

I didn't realize just how terrible that cow illustration is until now, seeing it bigger.

@Penny: The online stores are Europe only at the moment, though I'm sure that'll change in the next year or so.

@SophieWantsMizJback: The US still doesn't have an online store for H&M. I read the german one to see what's coming out soon over here.

@drunkexpatwriter: I think us girls have learned not to have that high of expectations when it comes to guys trying to look nice. Really, just something neat and new looking, that's fine. Hopefully a neutral color.

@drunkexpatwriter: I have a strong preference for boxer briefs. But mostly, I'm just against boxers. You know why? The first series of boyfriends I had all wore faded, worn out, cotton boxers so typical of lazy teenage boys. And they were in their twenties.

@RedBeansAndRiceDidMissHer: It's sucking it in.

@Ari Schwartz: Assuming genetic variation by difference in skin tone, or continent as it commonly is doesn't make sense, though. Variation can exist between two populations that look very similar, even more so than two population with superficial differences in appearance.

@any such name: I think twice about opening my window at night in Chicago.

@Ari Schwartz: Hybrid vigor is a lie.

@Ari Schwartz: Read my reply. When you are of mixed background, this all goes to crapshoot. (the comment was about settings on a machine to test lung capacity)

Well that's all and good, but what's stopping them from getting pregnant -in- Antarctica? Amiright?

@AccostHer Wilde: Family history of regular anemia, not sickle cell. And I've been told I clearly look mixed.

@whimsicalBS: Yeah, I've heard of the opposite happening too, where Mediterranean people -aren't- tested because doctors just make that quick color judgment that it's a Black disease.

@ajlien03: Yes, it's the industry that isn't letting there be more than one voice. I think it is the beginning of your post that made it seem otherwise.

@rixatrix has snapped from her tether: The only thing I can remember is that, on his podcast, a black woman called because she was finding out that her partner was attracted to her based on a racial fetish.